Admittedly, I'm a little scared of our second (8 weeks prego currently) if only because MsSerp works a lot of hours so there will be a ton of days when I have two kids on my own from 6pm-bedtime. Dinner, baths, bedtime. All on my own. Not sure how I'll do it tbh but I try to just be calm and task-oriented, always thinking ahead and that, for me anyway, helps avoid bad **** from happening and thus keeps me calm and loving. I figure after a week or two of doing it and having a sort of routine, it should be fine.
****, and when MsSerp travels, it's one day at a time. It's really not so bad though.