Y'know, that's actually a really good point - and something I obviously hadn't considered when I made my statement. And it isn't fair of me to lay it at your feet - I think a lot of body image pressure comes from other women, and men's general expectations have followed.
We agree on all fronts. My girlfriend takes a lot more time and gets a lot more stressed dressing for girlfriends/events than she does for me and I don't think that's an unusual thing.
