IlliniJazzFan
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My core belief is focus your energy into what makes you happy and try to stop taking happiness away from other people.
I really don't buy into the "secular" argument that marriage should exist to serve the interests of children or the argument that somehow gay marriage harms children and therefore it should be banned. If that were the case couples who were sterile or simply choose not to have children should be under a lot more fire than they are but really they just get to live their life like any other married couple.
In my experience the main reason people don't think gay marriage should be allowed is for religious reasons but basing laws on religious beliefs violates the separation of church and state. In our society marriage is not purely a religious institution. If you view your personal marriage as a spiritual contract with God thats fine but that shouldn't affect the ability of an athiest couple or an an lgbt couple to go to a courthouse and engage in their personal social contract with the government. If you don't want gay marriage, I would recommend not getting one
I really don't buy into the "secular" argument that marriage should exist to serve the interests of children or the argument that somehow gay marriage harms children and therefore it should be banned. If that were the case couples who were sterile or simply choose not to have children should be under a lot more fire than they are but really they just get to live their life like any other married couple.
In my experience the main reason people don't think gay marriage should be allowed is for religious reasons but basing laws on religious beliefs violates the separation of church and state. In our society marriage is not purely a religious institution. If you view your personal marriage as a spiritual contract with God thats fine but that shouldn't affect the ability of an athiest couple or an an lgbt couple to go to a courthouse and engage in their personal social contract with the government. If you don't want gay marriage, I would recommend not getting one