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Which girl would you rather marry?

Which girl

  • Girl A

    Votes: 12 57.1%

  • Girl B

    Votes: 9 42.9%
  • Total voters
    21
First one for me.. As if you want kids I want us raising them, not a nanny. The rich one is most likely entitled to something.
Also depends on where you personally at as well. Nothing wrong with a sugar mama
 
Duck Rodgers said:
Girl A: Comes from a humble background, not well traveled, went to local schools, college educated, is content being a housewife.

Girl B: Comes from money, well traveled, Ivy League colleges, has grandiose ideas for her life where she will feel absolutely second fiddle not having some kind of career, no matter what you are doing with yours.

Looks wise, they are a wash.
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Personality? Sense of humor? Intelligence? Religion? Those are just some of the things your info is missing that were very important for me back when I was dating.
 
I'd like to think I'd pick #2, but I'd probably pick #1. But neither option is what I'd really want, based on the simplicity of the question. I would need to be with someone with interests a little more broad than the home, though I don't think you excluded #1 from having broad interests exactly. But I don't want a dependent wife. I don't need another kid in my life, one that will eventually get bored and want to know what else is out there. And wanting to raise kids is fine, but I just imagine marrying a kindergarten teacher type who always talks like she's talking to a 6 year old. I couldn't handle that.
 
Duck Rodgers said:
Girl A: Comes from a humble background, not well traveled, went to local schools, college educated, is content being a housewife.

Girl B: Comes from money, well traveled, Ivy League colleges, has grandiose ideas for her life where she will feel absolutely second fiddle not having some kind of career, no matter what you are doing with yours.

Looks wise, they are a wash.
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Based on the info you've given, Girl B in a heartbeat. Brains and money >>>> less brains and a lot less money.
 
Duck Rodgers said:
Girl A: Comes from a humble background, not well traveled, went to local schools, college educated, is content being a housewife.

Girl B: Comes from money, well traveled, Ivy League colleges, has grandiose ideas for her life where she will feel absolutely second fiddle not having some kind of career, no matter what you are doing with yours.

Looks wise, they are a wash.
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And if/when your two careers conflict such as a promotion involving a relocation to a different state? Whose career takes proirity and how will you resolve that issue? How does she feel about children? Does she want them. Is she going to sacrifice a bit of a career or will your children be raised by nannies and sitters while she's climbing up a corporate ladder?

Obviously there's not enough info for any of us to make a judgment. Perhaps the fact that you're asking indicates Girl C is the best choice. If you're wavering between two women, it sounds like you don't really love either, And when the rains come in your marriage - and they will - you'll look at Girl A or Girl B and think (or say), "I can't believe I married you instead of "***. What a mistake I made!"
 
GlassEater said:
Perhaps the fact that you're asking indicates Girl C is the best choice. If you're wavering between two women, it sounds like you don't really love either
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All joking aside, this was honestly my thought as well. If you can't decide between two women, the answer is neither.
 
The Thriller said:
Option 1.

Humility is one of the least common attributes in people.
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This. Plus not well traveled caught my eye. That would be something her and I would change but it would be memorable to her. Not "just another trip"
 
GVC said:
I thought the qualification of all else being equal was already made. Where is there any mention of humility?
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Well, woman B has ambitions. That's not very ladylike, and she should show more humility. Duh!
 
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