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Are you guys completely cool with your kids dating/marrying a child molestor?

Scenario: Your 22 year old daughter likes a guy. Invites him over for dinner one night.


Family gets excited. Door bells, you (mother or father) open the door. There's some cool dude chilling at the door, same age as your daughter. You ask him if he's ever been arrested. He said he served a few years for child molesting.

You don't know anything about his personality just yet. Let's say he's dressed like a normal 22 year old dude.


What his your first reaction? Does it change as the night goes on? What if your daughter has a kid?



I mean it's 2013 for Pete's sake. We should be past that by now. Come on guys. Besides, you don't want the NAMBLA lobby listing you as a pedophobe on their website.
 
Scenario: Your 22 year old daughter likes a guy. Invites him over for dinner one night.


Family gets excited. Door bells, you (mother or father) open the door. There's some cool dude chilling at the door, same age as your daughter. You ask him if he's ever been arrested. He said he served a few years for child molesting.

You don't know anything about his personality just yet. Let's say he's dressed like a normal 22 year old dude.


What his your first reaction? Does it change as the night goes on? What if your daughter has a kid?



I mean it's 2013 for Pete's sake. We should be past that by now. Come on guys. Besides, you don't want the NAMBLA lobby listing you as a pedophobe on their website.

I ask him if it was getting busted when he was 18 for banging his gf or did he really molest a child. If he says it was for real molestation. I tell him I am getting my gun and I better not see him when i get back to the door.
 
I ask him if it was getting busted when he was 18 for banging his gf or did he really molest a child. If he says it was for real molestation. I tell him I am getting my gun and I better not see him when i get back to the door.

You're a good dude, Stoked. This reminds me of the time I caught a guy smoking pot upstairs in my future wife's house. I went for the putting-on-my-shoes warning instead of getting-a-gun. Worked all the same. The GF roomate lasted 3 days after, although in hindsight he was pretty young and Sage might have been a little boy diddler. Pervs..
 
I am very glad I have yet to have any instances with either of my two daughters that test my restraint. I hope I never have to.
 
I ask him if it was getting busted when he was 18 for banging his gf or did he really molest a child. If he says it was for real molestation. I tell him I am getting my gun and I better not see him when i get back to the door.

Keeping in mind that if you live in Utah his girlfriend would have to be 15 or younger for him to get in trouble since it is legal for someone 18 to date and have a relationship with a 16 or 17 year old.
 
Keeping in mind that if you live in Utah his girlfriend would have to be 15 or younger for him to get in trouble since it is legal for someone 18 to date and have a relationship with a 16 or 17 year old.

Only if that boyfriend (I have all girls so calm down One Brow) lived in utah at the time.
 
Keeping in mind that if you live in Utah his girlfriend would have to be 15 or younger for him to get in trouble since it is legal for someone 18 to date and have a relationship with a 16 or 17 year old.

You would also need to find out if the 15 year old was hot.
 
Do people call statutory rape child molestation?


I would not let a child molester into my home.

I would have a hard time with Statutory either. But I am old fashioned and would have a hard time with anyone dating my daughter who admitted to premartial sex.
 
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