fishonjazz
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I agree with you. Most of the time that strategy is fine. I have seen videos on youtube of a person employing your method. Dude didn't get detained, didn't get physically assaulted or anything but the conversation between the dude and the cop was much longer than necessary and the cops was visibly upset and agitate, though he kept his cool enough to not press things too far.The police know that you don't have to answer questions. Getting aggressive with a person who chooses to remain silent could cost them their job. The important part for me is to be very polite, calm and cooperative. Not answering questions doesn't have to be confrontational. You can say "My lawyer friend told me I shouldn't answer questions, I'm just following their advice."
When I'm speaking to police I speak to them the way I would have spoken to a superior officer in the Navy. I'm polite, calm, professional and I always call them "Sir" or "Officer" basically every sentence I say. I have a tendency to act in a formal way even when I shouldn't but in situations like this I think it helps me. I'm very formal. I say things in plain simple language that leaves little room for interpretation. I don't try to make jokes. I don't try to be a smartass. I don't challenge them on anything they are saying.
If the officer starts getting agitated then I comply with whatever they want, short of answering questions. But I continue to refuse to answer questions in a very neutral non-argumentative way. "Sir, I just don't answer questions. With all due respect, I'm not trying to make your job any harder than it already is, I just have a personal commitment to remaining silent."
I provided a couple examples of times I've been pulled over and refused to answer the "where are you going?" question. I had very positive interactions both times.
Thats just not my style. If im driving home from fishing and a cop pulls me over and asks how my day is I will probably say its been great, i just got done fishing. Maybe he asks how I did and I tell him that i had a great day and caught a nice 21 inch brown. He might congratulate me and ask if im headed home now and I respond, yes after I stop for a bite to eat first. Im excited to see my daughters dance recital tonight. He might say, I hope she does great. Enjoy your day.
I would leave that interaction feeling pretty good. Im a people person and sometimes enjoy talking to people with a friendly detailed discourse. Maybe that scenario goes incredibly wrong and I end up in prison for murder or something somehow but im comfortable taking my chances.