So you continue to get responses like this from people, and you continue to think it's everyone else?
Interesting.
Oh, not even. I know very well that my personality rubs some people the wrong way.
Even in real life, I have people who really hate my guts. I also have a lot of very good friends. Guess which ones I care about.
There are varying reasons. I have a big mouth at times, and I say what I think and I say it like I actually think I am correct. I voice my opinions quite freely, and I back up what I say with a lot of facts, so I do come off as a bit of a know-it-all, and I am quite a wise guy, too.
Sarcasm is something I terribly enjoy, and that gets people riled up.
It isn't uncommon for a girl to start dating me and get a whole bunch of people telling her that I am bad news. If a girl believes them without getting to know me first for herself, then I figure she is probably not worth it and I am better off not wasting my time on her. Kind of a way of self-censorship.
I could spend time trying to fight the haters, or I could just go on living my life.
My philosphy is the same was what Wayne said in Wayne's World: Led Zepplin didn't writes songs that everyone liked. They left that to the Bee Gees.
I don't want everyone to like me. If they did, I would be doing something wrong.