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sirkickyass

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I've started dating a new girl who is really hot, pretty smart, and all the good stuff. Etc. Etc.

She's also a Lakers fan.

Do I have to end the relationship immediately?
 
Define really hot. Like show some pic of some chick on the internet who looks like her or something.

Also, to what base have you gotten thus far?
 
I would be more concerned if it was too good to be true, honestly. Finding a hot, available, and cool woman is almost impossible.

But to your question... that sounds like a near deal-breaker. But no, it's not.
 
I would be more concerned if it was too good to be true, honestly. Finding a hot, available, and cool woman is almost impossible..

Very true. I'm thinking her breath or her cooder smells or she's promiscuous. Or maybe she's awful in the bedroom. Or possibly all four.
 
Define really hot. Like show some pic of some chick on the internet who looks like her or something.

I don't keep a mental list of all hot women on the internet to make these kinds of comparisons. Nor do I feel like doing that specific research.

Trout can confirm that she is hot.

Also, to what base have you gotten thus far?

Why is that relevant to whether or not Laker fandom makes her undateable?
 
I don't keep a mental list of all hot women on the internet to make these kinds of comparisons. Nor do I feel like doing that specific research.

Trout can confirm that she is hot.

Why is that relevant to whether or not Laker fandom makes her undateable?

Maybe you could have her run the same questions on lakersground and see if lakers fans really want to be associating with utah in any way.

This question really just says all the wrong things about you personally, btw. disloyal to us fanz here. Even being here from where you live is hopefully a sign of greater devotion to OUR TEAM.

I could write you a personal plea for a utah date site:

"In love with the Jazz, can't stand anyone who isn't. ONLY THE HIGHEST STANDARDS. signed "ditched in SFO".
 
I've started dating a new girl who is really hot, pretty smart, and all the good stuff. Etc. Etc.

She's also a Lakers fan.

Do I have to end the relationship immediately?

No. It is not even a consideration. You end it if you do not like her.
 
Yeah, in all seriousness, sports allegiances are unimportant in areas like this.

Does she know you're a Jazz fan? Has she expressed concern? A truly smart person doesn't let such trivial matters interfere with important things.
 
Question is, is she respectful. Will she give you all sorts of crap when the lakers beat the jazz?
Will you give her all sorts of crap when the Jazz beat the lakers?

If either answer is yes, then prepare for bad feelings.


I had a gf recently, who decided that sports were a waste of time, so I shouldn't watch them anymore. When my team was playing and I was watching, she would pout and say anything she could to piss me off and when I got pissed at her and told her to lay off, she would lay into me about how I take it too seriously and it is pointless.

I never called anything she liked to do pointless.

We eventually broke up. not over that, but because the relationship was too one-sided. I was tired of her constantly trying to change me. And she even acknowleged that I was extremely accepting of her.
 
Question is, is she respectful. Will she give you all sorts of crap when the lakers beat the jazz?
Will you give her all sorts of crap when the Jazz beat the lakers?

If either answer is yes, then prepare for bad feelings.

So far she appears to mostly be interested in making various types of wagers with me over the outcome of those games.

I presume bragging rights come with winning those bets.

Say "no".

How long has it been since you've had a girlfriend?
 
Why would we ask them? They're not even human.

Well, actually, yes they are. . . . . but we were having fun, weren't we?



I've listened to Pacific Garden Mission's radio program"Unshackled" enough to think I have heard about just about everything people do wrong somehow. And been around a while. I have to concede to the wisdom of the posters above who more appropriately suggest that sports allegiances might not be the most important factors.

But we can all make less important things too important sometimes. I think the ultimate wisdom comes from our creator, and from my own experience I can only say I regret whenever I didn't stand with that.

other than that, having love and respect in the relationship can't be beat, and probably is what God wants in our chosen relationships as well.
 
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