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Well, not sure we're on the same page, here, eh, Chem? The guy I quoted is supposed to be strongly in favor of gay marriage and active in seeking to have it legitimatized nationwide. He thinks all prohibitions against it are unfair and unjust. He just doesn't think its prohibition is "unconstitutional," that's all.

That's his opinion, and I think at some level we ought to respect that. I think we're saying largely the same thing, just from different perspectives, Hoppy.
 
Let me include this quickly, Hoppy:

The Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law estimates, based on the 2005/06 American Community Survey, that ~8.8M people in the US are gay. Of those 8.8 million, I would be inclined to think the far and vast majority of them are for gay marriage.

I agree. Especially with over 1,000 monetary benefits from the government at stake. But, again, whether one is "for" or "against" gay marriage says nuthin, in itself, about whether it is unconstitutional to prohibit it.
 
I agree. Especially with over 1,000 monetary benefits from the government at stake. But, again, whether one is "for" or "against" gay marriage says nuthin, in itself, about whether it is unconstitutional to prohibit it.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think we're looking at this from two different perspectives. I'm looking at gay marriage from the perspective of "if two people care enough about each other to enter into the sacred blah blah blah" while I think you investigate it from a gov't perspective. While the monetary benefits play a role, I would hope that that is not the primary motivation for the majority of gay marriages to occur.

Regarding the constitutionality of gay marriage...I can't speak for or against it directly. I'm not versed in law (nor am I interested enough in it to plow through tax benefits texts. If you are then I welcome your input), but I am versed in the moral/philosophical implications of the denial of basic rights.
 
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think we're looking at this from two different perspectives. I'm looking at gay marriage from the perspective of "if two people care enough about each other to enter into the sacred blah blah blah" while I think you investigate it from a gov't perspective. While the monetary benefits play a role, I would hope that that is not the primary motivation for the majority of gay marriages to occur.

Yeah, we already talked about this. I have no objection to them using the word "marriage" to describe their romance, or to publicly declare their eternal love for each other in a solemn ceremony. If that's all you're advocating, then we agree.

Regarding the constitutionality of gay marriage...I can't speak for or against it directly. I'm not versed in law

Well, I aint no bottom feeder neither. Ultimately what is "constitutional" is whatever at least 5 Supreme Court Justices say it is. It's just that this whole thing that Kicky brought up (and others before him) relates to what is "constitutional" not what is "moral" or "philosophically desirable."
 
Yeah, we already talked about this. I have no objection to them using the word "marriage" to describe their romance, or to publicly declare their eternal love for each other in a solemn ceremony. If that's all you're advocating, then we agree.



Well, I aint no bottom feeder neither. Ultimately what is "constititional" is whatever at least 5 Supreme Court Justices say it is. It's just that this whole thing that Kicky brought up (and others before him) relates to what is "constitutional" not what is "moral" or "philosophically desirable."

Point(s) taken. I'd be willing to bet it does eventually make it to the Supreme Court. Time to start taking bets on the outcome. I'm guessing 5-4, though which side "wins" is a toss-up.
 
Yeah, Kicky, the guy wrote 136 pages, so ya know he was, uhhh, shall we say "dedicated," eh? Big whoop. Like I done said:

Unconstitutional according to? One homosexual judge in San Francisco, eh? Like, whooda thunk, I ax ya? "It was likely that a homosexual judge would rule in his own interest so this was no big surprise to me," Nelson said minutes after Chief U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker, who is gay, made his verdict public."

In other words, because he's gay he must be wrong? Saying he feels that way because he's gay isn't a refutation of his argument, in fact its a total refusal to deal with his argument. Unless Nelson read the entire opinion in those few minutes, I don't think his conclusory statement can really be based on much other than his personal feelings.

How do you know it was in his own interest? How do you know he wants to get married?

If his ruling was based only on his own self-interest why doesn't the ruling insist that Prop 8 has to pass strict scrutiny or even intermediate scrutiny? Why was he willing, instead, to weigh the various arguments against the much lower hurdle?

Your argument (if you can even call it that) is based on a single fallacy: attacking the messenger rather than his argument. Neither you, nor the person you're citing, has bothered to read the argument.
 
Kicky, you miss the gist, and the real point, of my response. I said I don't think the ballgame is over.

One gay judge in San Francisco opining about the 14th amendment as it relates to gay marriage is kinda like a legislative aide who cooked up a new bill to present sayin he thinks his measures should be passed into law. He can think all he wants, but he don't ultimately count, whether he's right or wrong.
 
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One gay judge in San Francisco opining about the 14th amendment as it relates to gay marriage is kinda like a legislative aide who cooked up a new bill to present sayin he thinks his measures should be passed into law. He can think all he wants, but he don't ultimately count, whether he's right or wrong.

This is less true than you might think because the federal trial judge usually gets the final say on issues of fact while appeals courts generally only review issues of law. In that sense, the trial judge's ruling is a lot more important than you're giving it credit for.

There's already been one op-ed up on the times theorizing that the decision is specifically designed to take advantage of that fact and limit the basis for review.
 
This is less true than you might think because the federal trial judge usually gets the final say on issues of fact while appeals courts generally only review issues of law.

Well, the issue here is a legal one, not a factual one, really. What a "rational relation" is more of an apriori question. You don't need factual testimony from an expert sayin he don't see no relationship.
 
I went on to say this, originally, although I didn't quote it a second time:

"God only knows how many billions this judge thinks he is telling the country it must spend on homosexual marriages because anything else would violate the U.S Constitution, eh? I gotta feelin this here ballgame aint zakly over yet, know what I'm sayin?"

I'm simply suggesting that the gay rights advocate I quoted is probably right. This is probably more of a political issue than a legal one. You have already pointed out how low the standard was for the "defendant" to prevail--which simply means it will be quite easy to "overturn" his decision, if that's what higher courts want to do. With tremendous financial implications seemingly at stake, this goes far beyond what one homosexual thinks is "fair."
 
No, Chem, but I'm just talking about State involvement really. Anybody who want to go through some religious or secular "ceremony" where they publicly declare their eternal love for each other should be free too. It's the State intervention and "entitlements" that I'm addressing.

You still need to justify applying a different standard for receiving state entitlements. If you want to remove all state entitlements for all marriages, that's a fair position that will go nowhere politically. Culling out one type of marriage for that treatment is unfair.

While I am not opposed to gay marrige, I'm pretty pissed that once again the federal government can simpy step in, wave it's magic wand, and completely un-do the work of the people.

While sirkickyass has focused on poll taxes, I'm going with Loving vs. Virginia. The courts just stepped in and overturned laws against interracial marriages. do you feel they acted improperly then? If not, can you name one rational reason why the court acted correctly then, but not now?

I will say this is the rare instance where I have no idea if this is satire or not.

Poe's Law.

But he has the intellectual clarity and integrity to recognize that the anti-Prop 8 case should fail (as well as the courage to say so):"

People who agree with you always seem to exhibit a large amount of intellectual clarity.

Hmmm, Mo, says there: "But for some species, humans included, homosexual behavior may have no adaptive value at all. ... Looking for any single conceptual framework to explain homosexual behavior is an unattainable goal,

Unattainable goal to explain non-adaptive homosexual behavior with a conceptual framework? Like, whooda thunk, eh?

It's been a common understanding that non-adaptive features can arise (for example, the sexually antagonistic selection model of human homosexuality would say it is a non-adaptive behavior). It's to be expected that similar behaviors in vastly different species would require difference conceptual frameworks to explain, so no *single* conceptual framework will suffice (for example, in many species sexually antagonistic selection would not be a good model). Your combination of the two to say that homosexual behavor would not explainable within a conceptual framework (such as sexually antagonistic selection) is inappropriate.

I agree. Especially with over 1,000 monetary benefits from the government at stake. But, again, whether one is "for" or "against" gay marriage says nuthin, in itself, about whether it is unconstitutional to prohibit it.

1,049 benefits does not mean that 1,000 of them are monetary in nature. For example, the right to be next-of-kin in making medical decisions is not a monetary benefit.
 
"God only knows how many billions this judge thinks he is telling the country it must spend on homosexual marriages because anything else would violate the U.S Constitution, eh? I gotta feelin this here ballgame aint zakly over yet, know what I'm sayin?"

I'm simply suggesting that the gay rights advocate I quoted is probably right. This is probably more of a political issue than a legal one. You have already pointed out how low the standard was for the "defendant" to prevail--which simply means it will be quite easy to "overturn" his decision, if that's what higher courts want to do. With tremendous financial implications seemingly at stake, this goes far beyond what one homosexual thinks is "fair."

You seem to be focused on the money aspect. Do financial considerations (even as large as those you suggest) trump civil rights considerations? How much extra have school system had to spend to teach heavily pigneted children to the same standard as lightly pigmented children? Should the judges have considered that in Brown vs. Board of Education? Should they have considered the monetary aspects of supporting interracial marriages in Loving vs. Virginia?
 
How come my fun little thread got turned into a serious debate?

You sons of gay bitches. (which, of course, is totally not possible. science > your opinion)
 
How come my fun little thread got turned into a serious debate?

You sons of gay bitches. (which, of course, is totally not possible. science > your opinion)

LOL, crybaby....


Hopper said:
But he has the intellectual clarity and integrity to recognize that the anti-Prop 8 case should fail (as well as the courage to say so):"
People who agree with you always seem to exhibit a large amount of intellectual clarity.

LOL. So you're saying that people who agree with Hopper exhibit a large amount of intellectual clarity? That's a new spin!

Or did you mean that any person feels that those on their side of the debate are the smarter ones? I'd make a guess, but I don't want to assume anything here.
 
LOL. So you're saying that people who agree with Hopper exhibit a large amount of intellectual clarity? That's a new spin!

If Hopper and I never disagree on anything, almost as if we are the same person, that must be true.

Or did you mean that any person feels that those on their side of the debate are the smarter ones? I'd make a guess, but I don't want to assume anything here.

I was referring to a generic you. I'll try to remember to use "one" next time.
 
I've given this some thought, and I'm pretty sure that heterosexual sex and homosexual sex are not "total opposites." In fact, it's hard to think of something more similar to heterosexual sex than homosexual sex.

Two or more people: Check

Use of genitals: Check

Usually, but not necessarily, associated with intimacy: Check

Some level of body exposure: Check

If a dude is involved, there's some aspect of insertion into an orifice: Check

You can buy it: Check

The foreplay is pretty much the same.

The endgoal of the immediate action is the same.

I don't think these are total opposites.

I mean, if we're talking about a total opposite to sex between a man and a woman shouldn't it be like a dude watching football while a woman spends his money? That's completely different than sex, and might even lead to less sex since there will be a fight. Or more sex to make up from the fight, depending on the particulars of your relationship.

Or, in my case, reading your crackpot theories about the interaction between biology and marriage is the "total opposite" of sex because that's the biggest anti-****** I can imagine.


Sex is the stimulation between sexual organ and sexual organ through direct contact. Male and female anatomy are clearly made for that. All other "forms" of sex are just mimicing heterosexual contact that would come from male and female intercourse. Including hands, oral, anal, strap ons, etc.

My point is homosexuals cannot have sexual intercourse through direct sexual organ contact.
 
All homosexual "sex" is just mimicing what heterosexual intercourse is. Not to mention male homosexual form of sex is extremely harmful to the body. If homosexuality was meant to exist in nature their anatomy would have changed to fit. Thats how evolution works.
 
Sex is the stimulation between sexual organ and sexual organ through direct contact. Male and female anatomy are clearly made for that. All other "forms" of sex are just mimicing heterosexual contact that would come from male and female intercourse. Including hands, oral, anal, strap ons, etc.

My point is homosexuals cannot have sexual intercourse through direct sexual organ contact.

Voting is the act of expressing or signifying will or choice in a matter, as by casting a ballot. Originally only men could do it. Although women have fully functioning sexual organs, they were barred from it until the 19th amendment was passed.

Drinking out of a water fountain is the act of procuring water from a spout with the aim of rehydrating yourself. Originally only white men could do it from all fountains. Although black people had skin at the time, the pigmentation therein was too dark to warrant their hydration from said fountains until the Civil Rights Act was passed.

Fast forward to today. "Sexual intercourse" means vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, fellatio or cunnilingus between persons regardless of sex (according to some states' Judicial Branches). Originally this term applied to heterosexuals only. Although homosexuals have sexual organs and the capacity to love just as much as heterosexuals, their sexual acts were deemed "mimicking" by Bean.

Bean, words, ideas, and concepts evolve. Without this evolution of semantics, we'd all be in a much sorrier state of being. I still don't quite understand your hesitance at accepting their physical acts of love as "sex," and that being the vehicle to bar them the usage of a single, solitary word: marriage.
 
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