I've been married for almost two weeks...
Sirkickyass said:.
The "why should I have to?" is not crap.
I've been married for almost two weeks so it's totally appropriate for me to have an opinion about this sort of thing now.
We got married in Southern California because the Madame's elderly grandparents live there and, to be honest, there was no way that they could attend a wedding in any other location. She really wanted them to be there and my family has a three-generation tradition of eloping so it was no skin off my back. Those are the kinds of decisions you get to make when you can walk into any state in the country and pay the $60 fee for a marriage license the day before the ceremony. As an added bonus, it's so easy to do things the way you want to do them when you're straight that we had the internet certify my best friend as a jedi knight, flew him out, and had him perform the ceremony itself as the priest.
Life is much harder if the person you happen to love is the same sex as you. If the Madame was a Monsieur and his elderly grandparents were in Arkansas we would have been out of luck. Grandpa's just got to die without seeing his grandson get married. That's not "crap." That's the kind of thing people don't forget for their entire lives. And that is total ******** that this happens to people.
If I can fly anyone out that I want to any location I want to perform a ceremony on 24 hours notice and he can write my wedding vows to be all about jaegers and kaijus then there is no reason that two people of the same sex should have to jump through any hoops whatsoever if they want to get married too.
Congrats on your wedding kicky, and thanks for the legal input. Helps bring the anecdotal back to reality.
Sen. Mike Lee, R-Utah, has introduced a bill that is seeking to protect religious institutions from facing government backlash if they choose not to support gay marriage.
Lee, along with 11 other Republican co-sponsors including Utah's Sen. Orrin Hatch, introduced the bill. It is a companion bill to similar legislation being considered in the House sponsored by Rep. Raul Labrador, R-Idaho. The bill simply seeks to bar the government from denying any person or group tax-exempt status for exercising their religious conscience rights.
"This bill protects the rights of individuals and organizations from religious discrimination by the federal government," said Lee in a released statement. "Those who believe in the traditional definition of marriage deserve respect and tolerance. It is critical that we clarify the law to ensure that their fundamental civil liberties are not at risk."
Context?
Pure paranoia and fear-mongering. Legislation that serves a valid, secular purpose will always be justifiable based on that purpose, including the number of marriages and the age of the participants. The is no right to discriminate or harass, and the acceptance of gay marriage affects no other religious behavior. No religion has ever been forced by the US government, at any time, to recognize any marriage. For example, there are still churches that refuse to recognize interracial marriages some 45 years after Loving vs. Virginia.
At no time in U.S. history has homosexual marriages been forced on a state against its will...and yet here we are setting all kinds of new "precedents" in Obamanation.
I do find it interesting that all of the sudden feminazis support marriage as a positive and valuable thing, when their doctrine is that marriage is a form of slavery for women.
Oh thank goodness!
I'm so grateful for Senator Lee. Looking out for the real victims of the gay marriage debate. I would hate for my fellow American brothers and sisters to be discriminated against.....
https://m.heraldextra.com/news/loca...553a-9f36-1ad3f1846d75.html?mobile_touch=true
For being such a Constitutional Expert, Lee sure does seem to know nothing about it. Aren't churches and individuals sort of protected already?
At no time in U.S. history has homosexual marriages been forced on a state against its will...and yet here we are setting all kinds of new "precedents" in Obamanation.
For some unknown reason I was asked to provide what I think the negative effects of homosexual marriage will be. I don't have any delusions that they matter enough to even be considered "fear mongering," seeing as I wouldn't have supplied them unless asked.
I do find it interesting that all of the sudden feminazis support marriage as a positive and valuable thing, when their doctrine is that marriage is a form of slavery for women.
This reminds me of a point I thought about bringing up before (but then forgot). There are actually two completely separate questions that are going on with this train of thought: (a) Should laws be passed to enable gay marriages? (b) Is there a fundamental right to gay marriage? Default's sentiment is an argument for (a), but not for (b).
In my opinion, as I've strongly opined in this thread and elsewhere, (b) is invalid. There is no fundamental right to gay marriage (again, speaking about my own opinion). And nothing short of a Supreme Court decision will convince me otherwise. However, if the discussion were about (a), I'd be much more open. I'd still be against gay marriage, but I recognize that there are reasons for supporting it that fall short of "fundamental right", but which are compelling. Loggrad's story, for example. Hopefully I said that clearly enough, but let me try to restate. If a proposition for gay marriage were on a ballot here (Utah) like it was in California some years ago, I'd vote against it, but I'd be content to live with the outcome if my side were outvoted. It's the whole "courts overruling the will of the people because of some perceived civil right which doesn't actually exist" thing that gets under my skin.
So there you go, there is a Supreme Court decision that struck down the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) as unconstitutional because laws that classify people (and benefits) on the basis of sexual orientation could not survive constitutional muster.
(CNN) -- The Justice Department announced Friday it will recognize -- for federal purposes -- same-sex marriages performed for a short period in Utah.
The state on Wednesday said it would not recognize the approximately 1,000 marriages or marriage licenses issued for gay and lesbian couples, at least until the issue is fully resolved in the courts.
Actually, I thought the main reason the Supreme Court struck down DOMA was due to state's rights--they ruled that the federal government had no right to not recognize a marriage solemnized by a state. That's why I think there's an excellent chance that the Supreme Court *will* find that states have rights to define marriage as heterosexual only.
SO honest question.
Aside from the term marriage, does anyone have a problem with same sex couples having the same rights and privileges under the law as hetero couples? Such as medical decisions, life insurance benefits, social security benefits...?
Also if a couple has those benefits in one state (gay marriage allowed) and they move to a state that does not allow gay marriage do they lose those benefits? Even if they are federal benefits such as Social Security?
Where does freedom of religion and non-discrimination meet? In abstract of all the medical benefits etcetera seem obvious thinks to extend to all people.
Where does freedom of religion and non-discrimination meet? In abstract of all the medical benefits etcetera seem obvious thinks to extend to all people.
SO honest question.
Aside from the term marriage, does anyone have a problem with same sex couples having the same rights and privileges under the law as hetero couples? Such as medical decisions, life insurance benefits, social security benefits...?
Also if a couple has those benefits in one state (gay marriage allowed) and they move to a state that does not allow gay marriage do they lose those benefits? Even if they are federal benefits such as Social Security?
Someone please respond to Stoked's post...