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Dating age range.

In my opinion if they are two adults and are comfortable dating than the ages are fine.

I've been out with a woman 20 years my senior and one 12 years my junior.
 
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.

One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
 
Gameface said:
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.

One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
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fishonjazz said:
Black sheep
Dumbass



Jk, nothin but love GF
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What's wrong with dark horses and black sheep? Stereotypical of you white men using black in a derogatory manner. Reported to OneBrow. You will receive your PM dwarfly. (politically correct, nothing against short people *cough*PKM*cough*Vinylone*cough*)
 
@Duck

Dating and the whole phenomenon of human connection is pretty poorly explained in the language of "competition." I hope for your own sake that you figure that out. But, keep shootin from the hip braugh. It was funny to read.
 
Gameface said:
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.

One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
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that's awesome. I want to get a 25 year old when I'm 40 also. I guess ill have to spend more time on those dating sites and prey for young ladies if i want it anytime soon. I usually go to russian cupid for their mail order brides. you can see more about it here https://www.freedatinghelper.com/reviews/russian-cupid/
 
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Duck Rodgers said:
Did she try to oversell certain things(career, money) etc. because she was aware that those were her standout areas and that her competition(younger girls) might best her in other areas? That's pretty much how I would project that type of relationship going. Maybe not on date 1, but women seem hyper aware of other potential women that could be in your life instead of them. Whereas I've heard so many women complain about men over the years that I don't think that way at all. And I'm guessing most guys don't either.

Plus, like I've said, I've never actually dated older women, but I have been hit on by a decent amount, and it's always super creepy. Like them saying how they could take care of me financially and stuff. I'm guessing most guys come off like some of the older women I've encountered. I'm glad I'm not a girl.
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She was confident and self assured. She knew who she was and what she wanted. It was an attractive quality.
 
Wait, kicky drunk reps one of my posts (reps it for saying I'm divorced) from a thread from March and it's absurd of me to assume he's trolling and his rebuttal is that I need anger management? I bet he's thriving in his profession with logic like that. SMH, doe.
 
Can someone bring me up to speed please. I am not "hip" to all the modern "slang" that is so very very "cool". I am too busy holding down a job and being responsible to keep up.

What does SMH and SMD stand for?

I think I have doe figured out, but so many people use it in a context where the assumption makes no sense.

I am not going to even get into eye or whatever.
 
Archie Moses said:
Wait, kicky drunk reps one of my posts (reps it for saying I'm divorced) from a thread from March and it's absurd of me to assume he's trolling and his rebuttal is that I need anger management? I bet he's thriving in his profession with logic like that. SMH, doe.
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Of course not.

Kicky trolls you on a level only you can match. TBH it's the most beautiful thing on this website and I'm glad it's back.
 
franklin said:
Of course not.

Kicky trolls you on a level only you can match. TBH it's the most beautiful thing on this website and I'm glad it's back.
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I love how he wrote me a collegiate-esk essay on how his rep was not only not trolling, but him being kind for my situation.


Hehepeepeecaca
 
LogGrad98 said:
Can someone bring me up to speed please. I am not "hip" to all the modern "slang" that is so very very "cool". I am too busy holding down a job and being responsible to keep up.

What does SMH and SMD stand for?

I think I have doe figured out, but so many people use it in a context where the assumption makes no sense.

I am not going to even get into eye or whatever.
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Shakes my head
 
LogGrad98 said:
Can someone bring me up to speed please. I am not "hip" to all the modern "slang" that is so very very "cool". I am too busy holding down a job and being responsible to keep up.

What does SMH and SMD stand for?

I think I have doe figured out, but so many people use it in a context where the assumption makes no sense.

I am not going to even get into eye or whatever.
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Yet another thread derailed by the H8 crew. This post has nothing to do with age or dating.

I can has official ruling?


£¥£
 
UGLI baby said:
Yet another thread derailed by the H8 crew. This post has nothing to do with age or dating.

I can has official ruling?


£¥£
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*Official ruling*

"I can has official ruling?" is in fact a failed attempt at using the English language.

*confirmed*

~H8rDie
 
Gameface said:
My sister married a guy more than 20 years older than her. When she was 25 and he was in his 40s it was one thing (kind of awkward). But they've had a kid since then and he simply doesn't have the energy to keep up. It has put a lot of extra pressure on her and from my perspective it seems pretty rough. Then there's the life-span issue. She's gonna have a lot of time left after he's gone. Unfortunately she won't be a spring chicken at that point. I kind of hope for her that she can find another fulfilling relationship once he's gone. I don't really know what her take on it all is. I'm just making guesses from a distance.

One thing I can say, he's a legitimate genius and my sister is pretty damn bright herself (I'm the dark horse in the family). Plus he's worth several million (his family thought my sister was a gold-digger at first, which I find pretty hilarious as nothing could be further from the truth). My sister is an odd one, in a good way, so I kind of get it.
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Good on them. If it works, it works. Nothing more can be said. Love defies all boundaries.
 
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