There you go again lumping all white people together in a conversation I don't get it. How is that not racism? How do you feel comfortable with doing that? When talking about this, I try not lump any race in one group. You clearly have that Bankrupt mindset that it's ok to lump all white people together but not any other race.
There are similarities in how people are treated by society based on their skin color, and this treatment affects their thinking in the way that treatment affects human thinking in general. In particular, you exhibited this when you said you thought depiction of racism were, not just exaggerated, but "over exaggerated". You made this statement based on the very small impact racism has had in your life. It's something you see very often from white men, because racism and sexism have very little impact on their lives. It's a normal human response to your/their experience, even though it is a misunderstanding of the the true problem.
No, I just want people people to stop blaming me for something just because of my skin color.
No one thinks you are relevant enough to be blamed for anything. Your insignificance dwarfs your ability to cause major harm by your ignorance.
My point was that plenty of white people have tried hard to help with the civil rights of black people. Black people didn't free themselves all by themselves. They had plenty of help from good white people a long the way. It's a shame that you and others refuse to acknowledge that and continue to bash all white people as a whole.
It's a shame that you are so invested in white privilege you can't even tell the difference between being told you have privilege and being bashed. No one is bashing white people, generally, not even HighlandHomie.
The ironic thing here is that you are bending over backwards to help the cause but then turn around and blame yourself for being part of the problem because of your skin color.
Every time I allow my immediate reactions to control my decisions, I am part of the problem. Every time I take a moment to evaluate those reactions and look for their basis, I am part of the solution. I go back and forth on that, like any other human, although I make an effort to emphasize the latter.
I can't stop others from being racist.
This so misunderstood what I said, so fundamentally, that my best response is what you responded to: As long as you are stuck in a mindset where racism is a problem of some people, and not a problem of culture, you are part of the problem.
No one is asking you to "stop others".
I'll just still be called a racist because of my skin color. I will always be part of the problem because of my skin color.
You'll have racist inclinations because you are human, and all humans have them. You'll be part of the problem as long as you insist the problem is individual people, as opposed to every person sometimes behaving in a racist fashion and sometimes not behaving in a racist fashion.
I guess I just don't understand what you would have me do?
I know, but I'll keep trying to explain it in different ways, for as long as you care to exchange posts.