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Having A Bad Night Advice From Parents Needed

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Folks With Kids Any Help Or Input On How To Handle A Sticky Situation Would Be Much Obliged. My Girlfriend And I Walked In On Her 14 Year Old Stepson Whereing Her Underwear And Whacking His Tally If You Know What I Mean. She Was Mortified And I Chuckled And Exited Are Bedroom. I Tried To Explain To Her That It's Normal For Boys That Age And It's Best He's Not Experimenting With Alcohol, Drugs, Or Weapons. She Kicked Me Out Because She Thinks I'm Taking Sides But I Think It's More A Defense Mechanism Because She Has Been Putting The Pressure On Me To Propose. I Thought Some Of It Had To Do With Tax Season But The Incident With Ashley Broke The Camels Back So To Speak. She Would Not Appreciate Me Using A Camel As The Analogy For Her But We Have Different Senses Of Humor So Now I'm Second Guessing Everything. Without Divulging To Much Information, I Have Been Married And Divorced Before. She Let Me Back In Today To Pick Up My Passport Because I Have A Trip Planned To Thailand For Work In To Days. Truth Be Told It's Not All For Work. It's The Most Beautiful Country In The World And The Best Bang For Your Buck If You Like To Travel Just Watch Out For The Boys Dressed Up As Girls. I Saw Ashley When I Went Back But He Was Very Short With Me And Dismissive. Usually We Goof Around And Crack Some Jokes And Have A Laugh But I Think He's Still Upset With Me For Walking In On Him In His Stepmother's Silk Snapper Slip. I Didn't Try To Force Talking So I Left As Soon As I Retrieved My Passport And My Pepcid AC Out Of The Medicine Cabinet. I Found My Girlfriend's Valium Which She Told Me She Stopped Taking But Figured I Didn't Want Too Start Another Dustup. I Didn't Mean Too Get Off On A Tangent But Does Anyone With Kids Have Any Advice On What I Can Say To Him To Let Him Know I Don't Judge Him. Also How Many Days After Being Kicked Out Must Pass Before Inquiring With My Girlfriend If She Is Indeed Still My Girlfriend Without Being Labeled As An Insensitive Creep. Thanks For Your Help. My Colleague Rick Says Online Communities Are The Future And Since Posting Here I Can See Why. Folks Are Good People Who Will Help Other Good People Even Though They Don't No Them.
 
May be your girlfriend is partly breaking up with you because you're going to Thailand for "work reason, but it's actually not all work".
 
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Cyrone Torbin said:
How can your girlfriend have a step-son?
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She Would Not Like Me Sharing This But I Think Clarity Is More Important Then Tact But She Was Widowed Five Years Ago And Remained In Custody Of Ashley. His Folks And Sister Still Come Around And They Have A Loving Relationship With Mother And Child. The Kid Is Happy Maybe To Happy In Light Of Recent Events But Anyways They Have Never Raised Custody Issues. The Boys Birth Mother Has Never Been In The Picture. Its A Lot Less Complicated Then It Sounds. I Haven't Gotten Much Advice Yet And Would Very Much Like To Hear Someone Who Has Been In This Position And Can Relate And Share They're Wisdom.
 
Let Him Catch You Doing The Same Thing. Then It Wouldn't Be Weird. Your Whole Family Can Just Have Daily "We Wear Each Others Underwear And Play With Our Tallys" Day.
 
14 year old boys are weird.

Seriously, wearing your GF's panties IS a bit off track, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or will turn into a cross-dresser. I think you need to call your GF and tell her you'd like to discuss what the two of you saw, your reaction and how it has apparently affected your relationship with her and with him. If you are both serious about continuing the relationship - and she'll talk to you - I think you should say that your response was really that a boy beating off is not a big deal; it's certainly better than promiscuous, unprotected sex. And you're not overly concerned about the panties; it's unusual, but not necessarily meaningful in terms of his orientation or future habits. But, if she is worried, you would be willing ti go with her to a medical doctor or child psychologist to discuss the matter, especially as it pertains to how best to re-establish a relationship with Ashley. It is a delicate position you are in with him as neither the father or a step-parent since you are not yet married to your GF.

I bet the panties are probably part of an Oedipal fantasy. He's a teenage boy, his mom is having sex with a BF who isn't his dad. Under the circumstances, the idea of "parents having sex" which sometimes grosses children out doesn't fully apply in this case. He'll grow out of it as he matures and has his own GF's.
 
Core4 said:
14 year old boys are weird.

Seriously, wearing your GF's panties IS strange, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or will turn into a cross-dresser. I think you need to call your GF and tell her you'd like to discuss what the two of you saw, your reaction and how it has apparently affected your relationship with her and with him. If you are both serious about continuing the relationship - and she'll talk to you - I think you should say that your response was really that ************ is not a big deal; it's certainly better than promiscuous, unprotected sex. And your not overly concerned about the panties; it's unusual, but not necessarily meaningful in terms of his orientation or future habits. But, if she is worried, you would be willing ti go with her to a medical doctor or child psychologist to discuss the matter, especially as it pertains to how best to re-establish a relationship with Ashley. It is a delicate position you are in with him as neither the father or a step-parent since you are not yet married to your GF.
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Terrible Advice. You Should Just Promote The Activity. Free Your Mind.
 
Core4 said:
14 year old boys are weird.

Seriously, wearing your GF's panties IS strange, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay or will turn into a cross-dresser. I think you need to call your GF and tell her you'd like to discuss what the two of you saw, your reaction and how it has apparently affected your relationship with her and with him. If you are both serious about continuing the relationship - and she'll talk to you - I think you should say that your response was really that a boy beating off is not a big deal; it's certainly better than promiscuous, unprotected sex. And your not overly concerned about the panties; it's unusual, but not necessarily meaningful in terms of his orientation or future habits. But, if she is worried, you would be willing ti go with her to a medical doctor or child psychologist to discuss the matter, especially as it pertains to how best to re-establish a relationship with Ashley. It is a delicate position you are in with him as neither the father or a step-parent since you are not yet married to your GF.
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This Makes A Lot Of Sense And Its Been Such A Cluster That I Never Really Had Time Too Organize My Thoughts. Reading Your Post Was Like A Switch Flipping. I Get 14 Year Olds Are Weird To. I'd Rather Not Say What I Was Getting Into With My Friends When I Was 14. I Also Have Children Of My Own Who I Raised From Birth Until The Oldest was 19 And The Youngest 16 In A Prior Marriage. I Suggested I Could Talk With Him About The Birds And The Bees Several Times But His Mother Is Very Strict And Old Fashioned In What She Feels He Should Be Exposed Too. I Made An Inappropriately Sarcastic Comment About Whatever She's Exposed Him Too Has Worked So That Made Things Worse.
 
countonbuckets said:
This Makes A Lot Of Sense And Its Been Such A Cluster That I Never Really Had Time Too Organize My Thoughts. Reading Your Post Was Like A Switch Flipping. I Get 14 Year Olds Are Weird To. I'd Rather Not Say What I Was Getting Into With My Friends When I Was 14. I Also Have Children Of My Own Who I Raised From Birth Until The Oldest was 19 And The Youngest 16 In A Prior Marriage. I Suggested I Could Talk With Him About The Birds And The Bees Several Times But His Mother Is Very Strict And Old Fashioned In What She Feels He Should Be Exposed Too. I Made An Inappropriately Sarcastic Comment About Whatever She's Exposed Him Too Has Worked So That Made Things Worse.
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How Hot Is His Mom?

Is She A MILF?
 
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