Wife had her first ultrasound today. There was good news and bad news. Our baby is healthy, and doing well, but there was supposed to be twins and we lost one. It's hard to process the grief while also being happy that you have a healthy baby. I just hope I don't look at that kid for their whole life and wonder "what if..."
I wish I could sympathize. As a man I could not care about a child until it exits.
What I can offer in condolences is that your baby girl absorbed the other fetus an will exit the womb as both of them. You should give her two names. Her name an her twins alter ego.