When I hear Balloun say, that he has no desire to change who he is, well, that just tells me there's a lot of self hate there. How can you not want to improve yourself when you have children in your life and are a part of a family?
Seriously, Dick? That is what you got out of my post? Since when has being happy and satisfied with your life equal "self hate"? Fwiw, I never said I didn't want to improve myself, only that I am happy and in no need of change. If you know me at all, then you know that I am all for improvements of mind, body, and soul.
Hack.