Struggle is overrated.
I would prefer that God come show himself to me and tell me what he wants from me in person...... Rather than trusting in some books and church leaders.
I could still choose to struggle and make incorrect decisions in any case
In my experience, and in what I have observed I have learned that what is given to someone with no effort on their part is not appreciated, understood, or cared for. What a person puts blood, sweat, and tears into gaining/earning/achieving is better understood, appreciated, and cared for.
I also think there are at least two different types of struggle. There is a struggle to overcome an obstacle/issue/challenge, and there is a thrashing around in anger/defeat at an obstacle/issue/challenge with no attempt to overcome.
Let me explain my thoughts in a way you might understand better.
If someone hands you a salmon steak that has been cooked and seasoned the way they like it, you may like it too and appreciate what they have done on a surface level because it saved you some effort.
If someone teaches you how to fish for salmon, takes you to Alaska, and you spend time fishing yourself. It takes some time but you catch the perfect salmon. That same day you clean it, season it and cook it the way you like it. There is a lot more you take away from the second scenario, and if you wanted salmon again you could do it.
In both cases you got to eat salmon. In the second you have an idea of what it takes to get the salmon, and most likely you appreciate everything about it more. Also if someone asked you to teach someone else how to get their own salmon you could most effectively if you had experienced catching salmon much more than if you had not.
You learn more from the actual experience, and if you actually like fishing, you enjoy almost everything about catching the fish.
In this case, the struggle was a good part of the experience and enjoyable.
fishon, do you go fishing for the fish? Would you rather someone else did the fishing for you and just gave you a fish?
A second example would be similar, but have to do with something you don't enjoy doing. I still think you gain more from the struggle, even in things we don't enjoy doing over having things given to us with no effort on our part... despite the fact that you think you would just rather it be given to you.