That you can't quote a single post demonstrating such an attack shows the hollowness and paucity of your argument.
If heyhey wants to dissect my word choice and sentence structure to find hidden meanings, he's welcome to do so (and so are you). In fact, when moevillini did exactly that, I acknowledged she had a fair point, and I learned something about myself. Instead, heyhey came in telling me that I was too aggressive, and if I were only nicer, people would listen. Being nicer has never worked in the past.
I'm trying to use language in a way that clarifies, not confuses. There is a difference between racism and racial bigotry. Your insistence that they are the same thing, and ignoring the distinction, results in a lot of posts over vocabulary.
Then, enlighten me about myself. Quote a personal attack or two.
I well aware of the large disconnect between how you perceive me and how I perceive myself. I'm just not aware of any reason I should take it seriously.
So, let's be clear what I did not do, in this post or any other. I didn't try to tell you that if you said these comment more nicely, I'd listen to them. I didn't try to tell you how I do or should appear to you. I haven't leveled any accusations at you specifically or any other individual poster (given the aforementioned exception). Had I done those, your charge of hypocrisy would be valid. However, interesting enough, those are all comments that you have directed at me.