Don't know where to put this, so I will just say it here.
I have a big chip on my shoulder about the way Q has coached certain players (no surprises Exum being my main beef).... BUT
I have always thought he was an extremely effective game day coach, a great reader of the game, hardworking and a very thoughtful interviewee.
That statement he made yesterday about Gordo's departure was OUTSTANDING. If I was a player on the Jazz reading that I would be so inspired. I would look at that statement everyday until training camp and let it fuel me to be someone who contributed to fill the tremendous void that has opened up. My bias against Q stems from my fear that he doesn't really believe in Exum. And truth be told, if someone as knowledgeable as Q has doubts - how can I really be convinced that X will sort it out.
I think I would have taken Hayward's departure as a personal slight if I were him. Especially given the bond that exists with Stevens. But Q is an adult, modest, a gentleman and a professional.
His statement alone can do a lot to quickly 'heal' the Jazz.
I think you are seeing this all backwards. Snyder is tough on X and challenging him. Not out of doubt but because he can see more than what has been given. And so far this SL, yes its only SL, he appears to be right.
Player development is the last place that I will question Snyder and his coaching staff on.