you carry such incredible burdens. I wonder if your parents appreciate you enough; the religious guilts of immigrants can be crushing, and I don't think immigrant parents appreciate what their children and grandchildren go through. I can see your second-generation affects here on JFC, where that generational righteousness blends with a worldliness in such a way that few people really understand you. Probably time to bust out Microsoft Pain(t) and distract yourself, and the rest of us, with attempts at humor.
Your community is praying for you, Dal.
This is richer than Bill Gates.