I know what you mean. I have a family member going through it right now. My dad and I went to visit him during our lunch break today. Half the time he had no idea what was going on. While he is still looking fairly good, he's lost A LOT of weight. And he is in so much pain he just sits there and moans. And then all of a sudden, he called his wife into the room and told her he loved her and she was his "one and only sweetheart". I had to go find a damn kleenex.I'm so very sorry he didn't get to see his children born. While it must have been a deep shock to lose him so quickly, while thinking they had a couple more months, there is a small blessing in not wasting away while dying from cancer, as so many do. I watched my dad die from cancer, and his last months were spent in a hospital bed, withering away to almost nothing... in such a state he would never have wanted anyone to see him in, and he was not coherent most of the time. It almost seemed as though the 'real' him was gone long before his body finally gave out.
I know Enes was trolling these threads, but I can't believe he picked this one, posting that on this one was just...... I don't even know. I remember when this thread showed up a couple years ago, but I didn't look too much into it. I just read through some of the blog and saw the pictures on the side and couldn't believe at one point I dated Sean's wife! She was a great girl we just couldn't get on the same page and I'm glad they were so happy together. RIP
Guys with relatives with cancer. In the last year, I have become very knowledgeable about alternative cancer treatment and have become acquainted with some experts who help people in the last stages of cancer cure themselves -- this is not b.s. Go to webtalkradio.net and check out the shows of Bill Henderson, How to Live Cancer Free. He also has a book by the same name and a newsletter. If you want more information, just PM me.