This is such a good video. It drives home how toxic content is that insists women will only date someone 6 feet tall, with a 6-figure salary, and 6-pack abs. It simply isn’t true. Women are picky, but they’ve always been picky.
The problem is the phone. This video rightly goes first to guys outnumbering girls 2-to-1 on these dating apps. It is understandable. Getting rejected doesn’t feel good. It takes nerve to romantically approach a girl you don’t know. It is so much easier to download an app, swipe, and seldom if ever think about how many times you were rejected by women seeing your profile. It is painless. It is safe. It is lazy and every guy seeking a relationship is destined to lose. Even if you are the type who stands out, the girls who chose you will ultimately be unhappy with their choice due to the way human nature handles the paradox of choice, and girls on those apps have more choice than anyone can handle.
The content that paints women universally as unrelenting on demands that only the top 1% or less can achieve is only there to make you feel affirmed in the belief that it isn’t you who is the problem. Instead it is all women who are the problem and you weren't given the genetics or opportunity you needed. It prodding you to quit and stew in how unjust all women or the universe is.
Reality is that dating apps are a terrible way to meet potential mates and plenty of women are dating guys who aren't in the top 1%. In the past year, 72% of men have hooked up. That is a lot more than 1%.
It is true that sexlessness is on the rise but so is obesity.
Mathematically, even a lot of obese guys are finding girls to hook up with. I guarantee you that 72% of men aren't in the top 1% of income earners. That content telling you it isn't your fault is toxic. Yes most guys are invisible on dating apps. Don't go to dating apps to find partners. Get out in real life and get shot down in person. A lot. Do what you can to not be obese. You don't need 6-pack abs but do what you can. And stop with the videos telling you the problem is all women.