ok. then got with this part of my post you skipped: Why should the school call me up and tell me that my kid is being trans while at school? So you think that kids are leaving their house totally normal, getting to school and changing their clothes and their walk and their voice and their name, and then on the way home they change back into the way they were when they left school and you think that the school should call the parents and make the parents aware of these changes? How does the school know that the change is even occurring? How does the school know what the kids are like at home?