I was born to a single mother (aged 20) and we scraped by until she married a fairly successful second-generation salesman whose official spoken doctrine was hard work, no excuses and think positively but strategically (i.e. always calculate). Punishment would be doled out upon deviation from this plan. I had to save money to buy my own bicycles, video game systems, etc. by mowing laws, shoveling driveways in the winter, and, like you, working for a local nursery/orchard for $2/hr. This message of hard work has helped me in some ways, but I was never taught the value of WHY WE WORK AS WE DO. That caused all kinds of confusion when I got old enough to see that my step-dad was, despite the official mottos, pretty depressed and getting **** on by his fading industry (no hard work or positive thinking could get him out of that). Basically, this is just my way of asking the same question as above: Why should we work? What is "work"?