Males and females are two sides of a teeter totter, and both have equal weight.
If the male moves to the female side what happens to the balance. If the female moves to the male side what happens?
As to the treatment offered what specifically are you talking about? Not agreeing on your cage idea, of course.
This is fun, TM. When I claim my wife has "equal weight" I have to dodge something hefty. . . .
"equality" is a qualifier term, and requires a careful statement of parameter(s), equation(s), or items deemed "equal". In terms of cognition, females have such different brain structures from men, and such different input portals as well, it is absurd to assert "equality". Same thing with musculature and skin. To me it is a nowheresville argument to discuss "equality" between men and women because I don't even think that's an "ideal" worth pursuing. Honoring others for their inherently different but awe-inspiring capacities is the better ideal.
I liked your teeter totter analogy, and the "ideal" of balance in that sense, though. Probably a lot of young men will always have the "might makes right" barbarism and/or arrogance, and probably a lot of women will rightly reject such "manliness" as an inelegant notion portending future abuses. . . . The guy who loves and respects and honors the woman of his choice is the one I'd hope does the procreating. . . .
and, for OB, no. . . . a sensible fellow will not make a cage of the roles, but merely a useful tool than can be efficiently applied to problems at hand, like how to best rear the kids. Clearly, women have some talents for caring for their children, and men have some talents for the workplace, particularly in jobs such as lifting heavy stuff, building fences. Some women might be able to do better at those things than many men, but probably it would still be better for the kids to have mom on diaper patrol and dealing with the mayhem of the toy jungle. I did some duty as Mr. Mom, and I confess Mrs. Mom is eminently superior. Mrs. Cowhand, however, never could "tote that bale".