What is ironic about your perspective is that society was at one point Christian, and we saw how gracious THEY were to those who don't conform to your hated behavioral norms. Reading your complaints I can't help but be thankful for the secularization of mainstream society, because I don't have to worry about being burnt at the stake for having a different opinion, and neither does the Westboro Baptist Church.
What is most bizarre, though, got to be your view of how science should be taught. Scientists get to decide what is and isn't science. Period. Your side lost this argument nearly a thousand years ago, back when the scientists and the theologians were one and the same. Why are you still fighting a battle you've lost? What do you think will happen? We're going to discard all we've accomplished, and just let you decide which science is acceptable for us to use?
people get to decide what is or isn't "society", some say.
Scientists don't really get to say what is or isn't true, any more than Priests or any other brand of religious authority.
You are not in a position to change the nature of things, all you can do is speculate. . . . theorize. . . . and conduct some sort of limited investigation into what exists in nature. Believe it or not, that's all any religion can do, either. True enough, religion deals generally with a "God" who is not, apparently, observable or testable, say, like mass or energy. A pure "materialist" might dismiss the concept as having no material evidence on display, I suppose.
Scientists have an advantage in that they get to define their methods of investigation, which makes it easier to limit the subject. Problem is, reality is not so easily managed, in terms of either extensive or intensive parameters. So in effect, Scientists have chosen to wear blinders to exclude everything that is not observable under our material senses or our instruments, especially "God".
Anybody can claim to be "religious", and can say anything they want about God. I'm not concerned with that sort of "religion". I am concerned about the context of our existence, particularly in terms of what we are, or can choose to be. What is our nature and our relation to the Universe? We defy all the precepts of science in terms of measureability, observability, and predictability. We have transcendent powers of imagination, fantasy, intuition, understanding, reasoning, and choice.
And only "religion" is capable of addressing our nature on those dimensions, and provide us with a schema for self-awareness and relation to the universe. And yes, indeed, it is entirely probable that it's our choice, our projection, our imagination that we call "religion".
secular humanism displaces all those "human" capacities with a theory of the universe that merely transfers human rights to a new class of brahmins called "government officials" operating on fascist-dictated imperatives which displace all that makes humans "happy".