Joe Bagadonuts
Well-Known Member
Maybe I feel so differently about this than those of you who are being letter of the law because I lost my mom not too long ago. Those things that are iconic of her now mean so much to me and my family... they mean even more than they did when she was alive. I've experienced many other deaths, but never one that left such a huge hole in my heart. It would create such unnecessary pain for someone to take one of those things that allow me to still feel close to her. I think it's incredibly cold to handle things in the way the Jazz initially did, and I hope it only happened because of one of those oversights that can so easily occur when bureaucracy gets involved. It would be so easy to extend a little bit of compassion instead. I hope it really was Greg who reached out in the earlier message, and I will be very happy if I eventually learn that he has set things right.It sucks that your grandpa passed, but they were his tickets. Not yours, not your uncles, not your families. Sorry, I think they should be available for someone else.
And BTW, in my case there was an institution (a local city government) who did something nice in remembrance of my mother that they did not have to do. I will be forever grateful to them.