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Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

  • No

    Votes: 28 93.3%

  • Yes but just one time

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Yes with one partner multiple times

    Votes: 1 3.3%

  • Yes with more than one person

    Votes: 1 3.3%
  • Total voters
    30
  • Poll closed .
fishonjazz said:
I came kinda close one night when I was out partying at Liquid Joes. I was already going to be out all night cause I was sleeping in my Xterra in front of a friends house and my wife knew that so I didn't need to come home that night. I was out smoking and an extremely attractive female came over and struck up a convo with me and we were vibing pretty good and she asked where I was going after the club/bar and I said to a friends house and she was like "well I will be your friend tonight if you want to stay at my house" and it was tempting. Plus being drunk made me consider it when I never would sober.
Im very glad I turned her down. The guilt would have destroyed me and I would have came clean, probably got a divorce and never had my daughter.
Thats the only time I have ever came close.
Never really cheated on a girlfriend either though there was a gray area when I broke up with a girlfriend, slept with a co worker at a cabin, and then got back together with my girlfriend all in about a 5 day span. That was pretty shady of me.
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Liquid Hoes.
 
Keefe said:
Damn, how hot was the chick who propositioned you?
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She was extremely hot. Out of my league if im being honest. It was hard. And difficult to resist too.
 
Gameface said:
His memory
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What really happened
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Oddly enough that first picture does actually look a little like her. She was better looking though. Kinda looked like Emma Stone but a little bit better looking.
 
fishonjazz said:
I came kinda close one night when I was out partying at Liquid Joes. I was already going to be out all night cause I was sleeping in my Xterra in front of a friends house and my wife knew that so I didn't need to come home that night. I was out smoking and an extremely attractive female came over and struck up a convo with me and we were vibing pretty good and she asked where I was going after the club/bar and I said to a friends house and she was like "well I will be your friend tonight if you want to stay at my house" and it was tempting. Plus being drunk made me consider it when I never would sober.
Im very glad I turned her down. The guilt would have destroyed me and I would have came clean, probably got a divorce and never had my daughter.
Thats the only time I have ever came close.
Never really cheated on a girlfriend either though there was a gray area when I broke up with a girlfriend, slept with a co worker at a cabin, and then got back together with my girlfriend all in about a 5 day span. That was pretty shady of me.
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Hekate’s mom strikes again.
 
Current spouse or any spouse?

Also, do you have a specific definition of cheating in mind? Like, what about online sexy talk? Or a platonic kiss? Is it whatever I would consider cheating, or what my wife would?
 
gandalfe said:
Current spouse or any spouse?

Also, do you have a specific definition of cheating in mind? Like, what about online sexy talk? Or a platonic kiss? Is it whatever I would consider cheating, or what my wife would?
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Watch him as he dissembles...
 
I've been the other party a couple of times. Had an affair with a girl for a while that I regret cause ultimately it ****ed her up a bit, put her in a position that took her a long time to recover from.
 
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Rubashov said:
I've been the other party a couple of times. Had an affair with a girl for a while that I regret cause ultimately it ****ed her up a bit, put her in a position that took her a long time to recover from.
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Ball gags and donkeys will do that.
 
gandalfe said:
Current spouse or any spouse?

Also, do you have a specific definition of cheating in mind? Like, what about online sexy talk? Or a platonic kiss? Is it whatever I would consider cheating, or what my wife would?
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I think it would always have to be what the other party would consider cheating. I had a close friend in college, my study partner, that I met because we had the same major and were on virtually the same timeline. We had maybe 70% of our classes together and ended up planning it that way as we progressed so we could help each other. She was attractive, smart, funny, and we were very compatible. I had more in common with her than I did my wife in lots of ways. I would have been all over that if I hadn't already been married. But it was strictly platonic. However a few times my wife expressed that she was uncomfortable with the relationship. I reassured her nothing was happening, because nothing had happened, physically anyway. I imagine there were a few times that this woman and I shared intimate information with each other. She was relatively newly married, couple of years, as was I, and it isn't always peaches and cream in a young (or any age I guess) marriage, so we were sounding boards for each other. We ended up graduating together and had our arms around each other at graduation. Later my wife told me she felt I had been cheating on her with this other woman. She knew we had never done anything physical, and told me she knew that it was innocent, but that it put a knot in her gut to think about it at all. I suppose the relationship we had was just short of a marriage...very close friends. I didn't get it at the time because I was young and stupid. But to this day it bothers my wife a little bit, even after we have been married for 30 years. And I feel a little ashamed at my behavior, getting so close to another woman, even though I felt it was completely innocent at the time.

So was that cheating? I didn't think so at all back then, but the emotional aspect is just as important as the physical in some ways, so for my wife, I think she has the feelings as if I cheated even if nothing physical ever happened. I might have to say that it was cheating on some level. They call that an emotional affair I would guess, although usually that has a sexual component to it, sexy talk, flirting, minor touches, sexting even. This had none of that, but it was still fairly intimate.
 
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