You'll have to forgive me, but I'm going to choose not to debate or discuss this issue with you. I will say that I would likely have to visit the border area, visit the facilities holding illegal immigrants, and in general get that close to the actual situation to know what you call "the reality", as opposed to relying on news outlets. I'm stuck relying on news outlets. Poor "divorced from reality" me.
But I'll let you subscribe to your "reality", and I guess I'll subscribe to mine. I do know that Trump uses scare tactics to get his base to believe we are dealing with an "invasion" of drug dealing human traffickers, (God knows how many women with the mouths taped, laying in back seats and inside trunks), while liberal outlets emphasise the plight of refugees fleeing violence in their home countries. I'll bet there are more of the latter. I think it's a refugee crisis. Happens all the time in human history. There is a huge one going on in the Middle East at the moment. Climate change is quite likely to trigger others.
Now, I do not have the solution, but I don't blame refugees from fleeing Central America anymore then I blame refugees from fleeing Syria. I believe in helping such people, but it's my fault for feeling that way. I know there are colder ways and crueler ways to respond to things like that, such ways likely suit Trump, and I do not have a solution to the current surge of such refugees at our southern border. You know, my wife tells me "we're no longer a country" if we don't build a wall. I don't know, I just see a refugee crisis, and there will be more in the future. But I don't have the answer. It won't cease until that triangle of Central American nations somehow makes life livable for all the people fleeing.
And in answer to my wife, I remind her that most of these arrivals are substantially Native American. And they were in this hemisphere long before "my kind". And it's all part of the history that "began" in 1492. Still ongoing. A new Brazilian president committed to wiping out uncontacted tribes in the Amazon, and refugees fleeing to the United States. It's sad, frankly, and I do not have a solution.
Well, I guess this does constitute discussing the issue, but, bottom line, this is how I feel, so I assume we have nothing to really discuss in the long run....