And after thinking about it a little bit I realise it is not "who" you choose to inspire you, to aspire to or imitate... Why? Because no matter what you do, you can never be the exact same person of the person you wanted to be. You are totally different people, genetically at the very least.
So is it more "who is the version of you, that you want to become"? Or one might say "what is the best version of me that I can be?" Just try to visualise that..... hmmm... it's not easy!!!!
To be honest I have never really pondered that until very recently... can you imagine that? I'm 1/3 of the way to 90 and yet I have never actually pondered that. When I was in high school it was what subjects do I take to get into University. When I was at the University it was what papers do I take to get the best jobs. When I was working, it was what extra skills or connections do I need to get ahead/promoted?
Life can be so restricted. Most people are too busy trying to feed themselves or their families to even ponder....
Perfect take on it.
I realized the way we are, and the efforts it takes to fit in socially, economically, or in most any aspect of life, are real limits on almost anyone who is "normal". You have to have income at some level to maintain any stable economic life. I still have to do that. You can't just flaunt conventions and defy expectations others may have, unless you are a rock star or movie great. Only a few politicians achieve that level of independence, and for most of those few who can defy the public, they still have to stay in line with their financial backers.
I might be in error on the exact names of this anecdote. . . . but here is someone living two thousand years ago, or more. . . . who apparently had the same problem, and solved it at least partially. A Greek philosopher...... was it Socrates, or Plato. . . .????. . . . was approached by a friend who just knew life could be better. "If you'd just flatter the King, you wouldn't need to sit here and eat lentils". "Yes, my friend. But if you'd learn to eat lentils you wouldn't need to flatter the King."
Well, my customers are the Kings I need to please. . . . . even as a small-time cow producers it's the buyers who know what I should do. And I need to pay attention.
And the time I spend pondering topics such as these is still eked out of the life I have trying to earn a living, at a price.