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One of the most amusing parts of these discussion is when people say,"I'm such a rebel that I'm going to act in a manner that conforms to what's been expected of me for decades".
So, as long as we have 1 women engineer for every nine male engineers, it doesn't matter that 8 other potential women engineers were harassed, insulted, and/or discouraged from pursuing it? It's their own fault for not being able to put up with things no man is asked to endure to be an engineer?
The interesting thing to me is the amount of ridicule my wife received from various folks about being a stay at home mom. If she wasn't going to take the world by storm and be the next great CEO she was wasting her life. Why would anyone want to stay at home with the kids? Didn't she know she was giving in to the stereotype and reinforcing the male-centric biases of 150-years-ago America? Of course in the Mormon community she was pretty much the norm, but she grew up in an area that wasn't heavily Mormon, and many of her friends and acquaintances from high school just couldn't believe she would throw all of her education away, and allow the man to dominate her in forcing her to be a stay at home mom. So I guess the rebel part depends on the community and the context. She took way more heat for choosing to be a stay at home mom than she took when she decided to go back to school and perhaps jump start her career. The responses then were "well it's about time you started thinking for yourself". Funny how the counter-culture becomes the norm, then swings fully to the opposite block and becomes the new point of ridicule for not complying with the new "norm".