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You don't find his act selfish? I'm just asking.

Isn't claiming suicide selfish a little bit of a stretch? Is it selfish to not want to feel the pain of hunger? Is it selfish to want not to be pinched by the bully that was held back two years in a row? Is it selfish to want not to be beat up because you're a guy and like spice girls in Junior high? Is it selfish to not break up with a woman that no longer loves you but you fear being alone?

How about not getting blood drawn because you nearly, if not, pass out every time a need pierces your skin?

How about blowing off your toe because you don't want to die in a war you don't believe should be fought?

Shooting your buddy and eating him after being caught because your captors said one of you can eat the other, or we'll kill both of you?

Where, exactly, do you draw the line? More importantly, who exactly would you(or anyone else) think they are to decide where that line is?

Pain is pain. There are people that care, and that's enough for those that aren't sick. But often enough, those that are mentally ill just can't take it long enough to figure out what it takes not to be in that depth of mental anguish all the time.
 
I can see how some think it's selfish, but I'm certain that he didn't do it to hurt those left behind or with the intent to be selfish....... dude was in alot of pain I'm sure and just got tired of the pain and didn't want it anymore.

I'm not gonna hate on a dude just because he wanted relief from pain.

I think if people really don't want to live anymore then they shouldn't have to.
 
Anyone reading this thread.. that may feel theyre at the end. Don't.

Do something crazy, but good. Come see me. No need of money. Let's do this new thing together.
 
So someone you love is living a life that brings them so much pain death is preferable. How long do you want to condemn them to that life of pain just so you don't have to feel the pain of mourning?


Edit: to clarify this isn't aimed at anyone just a general question.
 
I'm not saying depression isn't a real disease because it is. There are many people who battle it and find the strength to go on. I have had loved ones and a very dear friend who was like a brother to me take their own life and the damage left behind is also immeasurable. If you're that low, continue to try to get help. It's his wife and loved ones that I would shed the tears for. They are the ones who deserve the tears because they are the ones left behind to wonder what they might have done, even if it's nothing. I am watching some good people battle for each and every day so I just can't work up the tears for someone who saw no way out. Sorry.

I lost my actual brother to suicide. I wish he had sought guidance or help from someone, and it was the easy way out. Does not mean it is appropriate to say **** em and call them a coward on the day they died.
 
So someone you love is living a life that brings them so much pain death is preferable. How long do you want to condemn them to that life of pain just so you don't have to feel the pain of mourning?


Edit: to clarify this isn't aimed at anyone just a general question.
Amen.

Ive never had those thoughts/feelings.. thank God... but I will never claim to understand those emotions or to call someone out for those feelings... I am certain they are real and not just selfish. Having said that... push through bros and sistas..... theres something better.. a reinvention if need be.
 
I lost my actual brother to suicide. I wish he had sought guidance or help from someone, and it was the easy way out. Does not mean it is appropriate to say **** em and call them a coward on the day they died.

Would it matter if I wrote it a year from now? I say the same thing about Kurt Cobain, and it's been 20 years. Why gush about him just because he took his life today? Maybe my words were harsh, but that's how I feel about suicide. Talk to someone. Get help. Keep talking. Keep getting help. A friend of mine just told me that he disagreed with me because he was in a spot where suicide seemed to be the best way after his teenage daughter died from a heart disease. He pretty much made my point by saying that he fought through it and carried on. I truly sympathize with you as you know how it feels to have a loved one take their life, but I just can't feel sorry for the person who did the act.
 
Would it matter if I wrote it a year from now? I say the same thing about Kurt Cobain, and it's been 20 years. Why gush about him just because he took his life today? Maybe my words were harsh, but that's how I feel about suicide. Talk to someone. Get help. Keep talking. Keep getting help. A friend of mine just told me that he disagreed with me because he was in a spot where suicide seemed to be the best way after his teenage daughter died from a heart disease. He pretty much made my point by saying that he fought through it and carried on. I truly sympathize with you as you know how it feels to have a loved one take their life, but I just can't feel sorry for the person who did the act.

No, it really is not appropriate at any time, but much worse the day of. Not saying you should gush if you do not likr the guy, but geez. And you were not in his shoes. You have no idea what was going on with him or ehat help he sought. Again, you lack tact. Your comments are a poor reflection on you, not on Robin Williams.
 
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