Yes Means Yes law passed

[QuinSnydersHair]

If you are so deaf to body language that this is what you need to do, good for you.

Me? No, not at all. Trust me, the ladies love Gyp and I know when they want the goods. I was however saying all that in more of a OneBrow voice because I get the sense you're not exactly smooth with the ladies. Amirite?

 

[moevillini]

Me? No, not at all. Trust me, the ladies love Gyp and I know when they want the goods...

uh huh... about as much as they loved Jame Gumb...

 

[moevillini]

oh sorry, I meant to :wink:

 

[LogGrad98]

uh huh... about as much as they loved Jame Gumb...

What? They were draped all over him.

 

[One Brow]

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You think I didn't pick that up?

 

[One Brow]

Some folks just gotta have it all spelled out, at least in their own minds.

Other folks just gotta any check on their privilege into question by resorting to the fantastic.

Casual sex is the problem. We're not animals, and we have notions about relationships and what they mean. "Marriage" is an acceptable level of commitment that has worked fairly well overall, across the centuries, in communities above the level of nomadic tribes.

Rapes also happen in relationships that are not casual, even between married people. Marriage doesn't work for everyone; just because it works for you doesn't make it a universal panacea.

while no should always mean no, so far as woman's rights go, yes should never be taken for an absolute or irreversible "yes". No man should ever misunderstand that. Or ignore it.

Exactly. Yea mens yes, no means no, maybe means no.

 

[One Brow]

I was however saying all that in more of a OneBrow voice because I get the sense you're not exactly smooth with the ladies. Amirite?

I can't think of any way to answer the direct question that doesn't sound like bragging, so I'll pass on that, other than saying I've been married for 25 years and monogamous for 23 of them.

However, I will note that the whole notion of being "smooth with the ladies" is objectionable. Every woman is an individual, and what some women find smooth, others will find slick, or gamy, or irritating. I just try to treat each woman with the respect she deserves, and things work out well that way.

 

[One Brow]

oh sorry, I meant to :wink:

Suuuuuure you did.