Not again

[Chargers Jazz Angels]

I feel like i have been kicked in the nuts, punched in the gut all while my head is being clamped in a vise.

Oct 23 2015 my wife was in a car accident where she was rear ended by a girl texting. The seatbelt did a lot of internal damage to my wife. It has cause a major pancreatitis. A massive ulcer on her duodenum. She has been abulanced to slc 4 times. She has had numerous sugeries and even been in the icu for a couple of weeks.

My wife has not been able to eat for a long time but lived on a feeding tube. She has lost almost 200 pounds.

It has seemed like she has finally turned a corner. She is back home and eating regular food although not a lot of it.

Last week the went in to do and endoscopy on check on the massive ulcer. Good news it looks a lot better. The procedure took a lot out of my wife but finally good news.

Until 30 minutes ago when the doctor call and said they found cancer in my wifes intestines. It is small and we have to go have tests done now.

After losing my son almost exactly 3 years ago to cancer my wife is diagnosed. I cant stop crying. I will be as strong as i can be for my wife, my companion, but i dont know if i can do this again.

 

[Shad]

It takes a lot of guts to post something like this on an online forum (with so much trolling). I feel awful for your families circumstances and wish the best for you guys. You gotta stay strong for your wife and keep the hope alive my friend.

 

[fishonjazz]

I'm so sorry man, cancer is such a bitch. I have lost a few people in my family to cancer, though they were not all that close to me so I can't imagine what you are going through.

Good thing that they caught it while it's small. Cancer is beatable under the right circumstances and catching it early increases the chances of beating it by a lot as I'm sure you know.

My heart aches for you man. I can't believe you lost your son. If you don't mind my asking, how old was he and what kind of cancer (feel free to not answer that. I don't want to unnecessarily open old wounds)

 

[fishonjazz]

but i dont know if i can do this again.

You just have to bro. Ask for lots of help from people. Take breaks and do something fun whenever you can. Don't stop living life, even if it's hard and you can't do all the things you want right now try to keep as much joy going as possible.

 

[Miggs]

My heart goes out to you, your wife and your family. Seriously. It sucks CD. But you got this. Take care of your wife like the great guy that you are and you're going to beat it together and be better for it. And like fish said, enjoy life still as well.

 

[Chargers Jazz Angels]

My son jake died of osteosarcoma. Google jake standing tall and all the info is there on his blog.

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[Chargers Jazz Angels]

I feel like i have been kicked in the nuts, punched in the gut all while my head is being clamped in a vise.

Oct 23 2015 my wife was in a car accident where she was rear ended by a girl texting. The seatbelt did a lot of internal damage to my wife. It has cause a major pancreatitis. A massive ulcer on her duodenum. She has been abulanced to slc 4 times. She has had numerous sugeries and even been in the icu for a couple of weeks.

My wife has not been able to eat for a long time but lived on a feeding tube. She has lost almost 200 pounds.

It has seemed like she has finally turned a corner. She is back home and eating regular food although not a lot of it.

Last week the went in to do and endoscopy on check on the massive ulcer. Good news it looks a lot better. The procedure took a lot out of my wife but finally good news.

Until 30 minutes ago when the doctor call and said they found cancer in my wifes intestines. It is small and we have to go have tests done now.

After losing my son almost exactly 3 years ago to cancer my wife is diagnosed. I cant stop crying. I will be as strong as i can be for my wife, my companion, but i dont know if i can do this again.

That is the ulcer and the location of the cancer.

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[Chargers Jazz Angels]

It takes a lot of guts to post something like this on an online forum (with so much trolling). I feel awful for your families circumstances and wish the best for you guys. You gotta stay strong for your wife and keep the hope alive my friend.

The jazzfanz community helped me a lot with my sons cancer. Jazzfanz are the greatest people on the earth.

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[Chargers Jazz Angels]

That is the ulcer and the location of the cancer.

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3 months later

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[MoTappin]

I'm so sorry you guys are going through this. Glad it is small - hopefully caught very early.

 

[RandyForRubio]

I'm honestly at a loss for words. I'll be praying for healing for your wife, and strength for the both of you. If you ever want to talk for whatever reason, let me know. I'll be available for you.

 

[b_line]

Oh man. I came around right ar I understand the time your son was going thorough his ordeal. I just can't imagine your pain. Like has been mentioned, I will be praying for you and your wife. If you need anything, we can pull together ad a JFC and do something for you.

 

[♪alt13]

My sister was recently diagnosed stage 3 and starts chemo soon. It makes me feel helpless but I try not to show it because I want to be supportive. Embracing Hope. Best of luck to you and your wife.

 

[bigb]

Good hell dude, a guy shouldn't have to go through this once, not to mention twice. I can't even imagine, not do I hope I ever find out, what you are going through. You and your family will be in my prayers.

 

[Surely]

It sucks that you have to go through this. I wish the best for you and your family. After googling about your son, I have a question, do you have a sister Annette?

 

[Chargers Jazz Angels]

It sucks that you have to go through this. I wish the best for you and your family. After googling about your son, I have a question, do you have a sister Annette?

Yes i do.

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[Chargers Jazz Angels]

It now has a name signet ring cell carcinoma.

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[babe]

I have no idea how you can hold on, but here's two slightly positive takes.

Some highway patrolman who picked me up out of my wreck in the desert some years ago didn't mind me babbling all the way to the hospital. When I apologized for it, he told me that the biggest danger after a wreck is the person going into shock, and said it must help to talk. He said he'd never seen anyone go into shock while talking, and theorized that it's good for us. Some UHP officer with the mind of Einstein I think. Keep talking, bro.

A small cancer in the intestines. usually slow growing, takes years to get noticed. Your wife's prospects are actually pretty good. Highly treatable, with a high cure rate, I think. But better check with the Doc, since I don't have much info about this case.

I should go get myself scoped.

Call it a blessing it was found so early, and thank God for that rear-end collision. It could actually turn out to have given her years of good life.

uhhhmmm..... whatever.... just keep talkin'.

prayers for you, bro.

 

[Surely]

Yes i do.

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She was in my grade at MC. Back on topic, keep your head up. You and your family are in many people's thoughts and prayers.

 

[JazzGal]

I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine how difficult this has all been for you and your family. Best wishes for a healthy outcome with a minimum of pain and difficulty for you both. You can handle more than you think you can.