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The costs of gay marriage

Teach should just say other kids can play their own game the way they want. She doesn't make rules for them. You start your own game. . . . just go have some fun, leave the other kids to theirs. OK?...Get smart, and start pushing for your needs on some reasonable basis that doesn't and won't disrupt the heterosexual marriage game. Call it something else,

So, if we call it the "homosexual marriage game", and refer to both games as marriage, how does that affect the kids with the steelies?
 
The idea that "Natural law, tradition, religion" come down on the side of reason, or are compatible with "intellectual curiosity, and free inquiry" is side-splittingly funny.

It is fitting that you find humor in mocking the values of others.
 
... and I firmly believe here is no equivalence between the laws against interracial marriage and the laws in favor of traditional heterosexual marriage. ... But calling me bigoted for my view (which is essentially what you did) is just plain wrong.

I accept that you believe there is no equivalence. However, since every argument currently used opposing homosexual marriage was identical in form to an argument that was used to opposed interracial marriage, you will understand that I find your belief unsupported by your own arguments. Also, it is factually correct to call you a bigot for your stance, even if you are uncomfortable with that label.
 
I accept that you believe there is no equivalence. However, since every argument currently used opposing homosexual marriage was identical in form to an argument that was used to opposed interracial marriage, you will understand that I find your belief unsupported by your own arguments. Also, it is factually correct to call you a bigot for your stance, even if you are uncomfortable with that label.

Wanted to go off but you standing on your own words is more damning than anything I can say.
 
I find it interesting that the pro gay-marriage crowd wants to move the "red line" to suit their demands but has a "red line" of their own that they think should be drawn in the sand and never crossed because they find the behavior disgusting and deplorable.

In my case, it's because there is almost never an equal relationship between siblings, and certainly not between parent and child, uncle and niece, etc., as well as because of the extra difficulties society often faces in caring for the children of such unions.
 
So in our world progress the following taboos are now seen as the norm for many people. (not a complete list)

Adultery, fornication, homosexuality, masturbation, abortion

These taboos have always been the norm in society, whether openly recognized or not.

What's next to be turned into the norm in the name of progress? (again, not a complete list)

incest, necrophilia, bestiality, infanticide, cannibalism, murder

These taboos have never been the norm in society.

Edit: except for infanticide, which has been the norm in some societies. My apologies.
 
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Instead of relying on small samples, or the challenges of discerning sexual orientation of household residents using census data, my colleagues and I randomly screened over 15,000 Americans aged 18-39 and asked them if their biological mother or father ever had a romantic relationship with a member of the same sex. I realize that one same-sex relationship does not a lesbian make, necessarily. But our research team was less concerned with the complicated politics of sexual identity than with same-sex behavior.

The basic results call into question simplistic notions of “no differences,” at least with the generation that is out of the house. On 25 of 40 different outcomes evaluated, the children of women who’ve had same-sex relationships fare quite differently than those in stable, biologically-intact mom-and-pop families, displaying numbers more comparable to those from heterosexual stepfamilies and single parents.

If you compared the group of children whose parents have a homosexual affair while married, to the group of children whose parents had not, would you expect those children to have identical outcomes in the aggregate? I suspect not. If my suspicion is correct, why should the aggregate results be the same when there was a homosexual affair?
 
All human beings are equal in dignity and should be equal before the law. But equality only forbids arbitrary distinctions. And there is nothing arbitrary about maximizing the chances that children will know the love of their biological parents in a committed and exclusive bond. A strong marriage culture serves children, families and society by encouraging the ideal of giving kids both a mom and a dad.

What is your argument that recognizing homosexual marriage alters those chances in any way?
 
I was wondering how long it would be before someone goes there. If you think the Mormon Church will embrace gay marriage and act like they always did then it shows your lack of understanding of the LDS church on a basic, fundamental level.

Do you really think you can predict how the LDS church will react 50 years from now? If you go back to the 1930s and tell the LDS members then they will have black priests in the next 40 years, will some of them tell you that you don't understand the LDS church?
 
I have seen nothing indicating they had a contract. Just that the photog refused to shoot the pictures. Not even the Huffington Post and CNN articles I have seen mention anything about a contract.

Just general skepticism. However, I looked it up. It seems the owners of the studio were quite upfront about saying they don't serve lesbian couples.

I don't think landlords should be permitted to without rental property based on religion, that employers should be permitted to withhold employment based on race, or that photographers should be permitted to withhold services based on sexual orientation. Do you think all three should be permitted?
 
It is fitting that you find humor in mocking the values of others.

I didn't mock a value, I mocked a category error. Natural law, tradition, and religion are, by their very nature of relying on received wisdom, opposed to reason, intellectual curiosity, and free inquiry, which rely on being willing to defy received wisdom. This is regardless of whether the particular value espoused by the natural law/tradition/religion is one with which I would agree or disagree.
 
Wanted to go off but you standing on your own words is more damning than anything I can say.

If saying that the status of being a bigot can be factually determined, and has been done in this particular case, are sufficient to damn me, than I am happy to be damned.
 
When you make a relevant point, it won't be missed. As long as your points continue to be irrelevant, they will be ignored.

This is funny as you have yet to do anything beside promote the victim mentality and play word games in an attempt to find fault. Perhaps you should follow your own advice.
 
So, if we call it the "homosexual marriage game", and refer to both games as marriage, how does that affect the kids with the steelies?

our literature is replete, across hundreds of years of development, with references where the meaning of the term "marriage" has denoted a union of distinctly different things, as different as a man and a woman in some striking way. You liberals and other agenda pushers are being intellectually dishonest in trying to blur the fact of hetersexual marriage being a distinctly different thing than homosexual perversions of the natural relation, and are in many significant ways different form the natural sexual function that is productive in nature, and that has been the fact of nature from the beginning of time. Our natures as men and women are in fact distinctly different.

The game of marbles has suffered the lost of some of it's original sense because we found out that glass and steel can be used in the "game". We don't make different games called "glassies" or "steelies" and in fact do use these kinds of marbles in the same play, but in the minds of the players they are accepted even though the players place significantly different values on the various kinds of "marbles", sometimes using that general term when speaking of the more exceptional alternatives. The point is, they all can be "shot" the same way, and depend on comparable skill in their use. I could probably graphically describe how homosexual relations are not "sexual" in some significant ways, along the lines of what goes where and how. Maybe you could just believe me, it's definitely not the same game. No matter what you call it.

using rocks and sling shots would not be the same game as "marbles" for all the same reasons.

It is just intellectually dishonest to try to say otherwise. Period.

Do people have rights. Yes. Should people have different rights based on personal choices in their private lives? No.

I am saying that strategy of seeking a new legal equivalence and meaning for different lifestyles is harmed by the attempt to degrade the meaning of heterosexual marriage and devalue the positives that correctly belong in that context. Society and law are justified for placing reasonable values and legal standing for heterosexual marriage because of it's unique power of natural procreation and the circumstances following from that in regard to child rearing and welfare.

should gay coupes be "allowed" to raise children? should single parents be allowed to raise children? I don't believe in government making those choices or regulating those personal choices out of existence, and I think what people do financially in personal relations should also be out of the government's meddlesome hands as well.
 
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