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What's the difference between a mommy tuck, hairspray, makeup, braces, clean clothes, etc.
 
green said:
Lol. You're an idiot. Ever had a child before? Then SHUT. THE. ****. UP.
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My wife had 4 kids and put on some weight during her childbearing years. About 7 years ago she decided to take it all off for her 20 year high school reunion. She went on weight watchers and dropped a little over 75 pounds in a year. She got all the way back to the weight she was at when we were dating. But her body didn't respond the same way it did when she was 21. She had muscle damage in her abdomen from carrying the babies, which is actually fairly common, and 3 permanently compressed disks in her lower spine. Also, the skin doesn't have the same elasticity at 38 that it does at 21. It is also harder to lose "surface" fat, so to speak. So she still didn't like wearing a swimming suit because her belly with extra skin and some stubborn fat deposits made her look like she had a little bot belly. She worked out religiously and worked with a trainer and nothing she did worked. It got a little better, but was still noticeable. I thought (and still think) she looked fantastic, even before she lost the weight, but after especially. Her hard work paid off but she had a hard time seeing past her stomach. She wanted a tummy tuck but we just couldn't get it in the budget. So I think it is legitimate. And green has a point. Talking out of your *** when you don't understand the circumstances is moronic.
 
green said:
Lol. You're an idiot. Ever had a child before? Then SHUT. THE. ****. UP.
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Nah. Not saying it's easy or you are going to look like you did when you young, but it's better than trying to surgically repair something that doesn't need surgical repairing.
 
Cyrone Torbin said:
Nah. Not saying it's easy or you are going to look like you did when you young, but it's better than trying to surgically repair something that doesn't need surgical repairing.
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Everbody's definition of "need" is different.
 
Revolution 9 said:
I feel sorry for those dating in SLC. Must be a drag.
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Just like anywhere, there are ****ty people and there are great people. No one dates the statistics, just need to find one of the wonderful people.
 
Cyrone Torbin said:
Nah. Not saying it's easy or you are going to look like you did when you young, but it's better than trying to surgically repair something that doesn't need surgical repairing.
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Lol. Again, you're way off on this topic. Way off.

My wife has had three kids. She exercises 1 hr a day, and counts every calorie she eats. She looks fantastic. Amazing. Better than she looked when we got married. Better than most 18 year olds. Guess what? After three kids, some parts of her body have CHANGED. Not gotten fatter, or older, or saggier, but COMPLETELY different than when she was younger. No fault of her own.

She's done the work. Those changes have nothing to do with what she eats, or how she exercises, or how lazy you think she is. Those changes came about because she decided to have children. That's it. Her problems are 100% because she wanted kids.

Now, like I said earlier, men and women put on makeup, nice clothes, cologne, get braces (and how is this different than a tuck or lift? Both are invasive procedures that change the way you look), do their hair, shower to look better for everyone else and to feel good about themselves. How is a tuck or a lift any different?

I'll tell you how: because you've decided you know everything about a topic you know nothing about. You have no real world experience (which, by the way, is my biggest grief with politicians. Most politicians went into politics because they couldn't hack it in the private sector, yet they want to tell me how the private sector should run, when they either failed at it, or have no experience with it).

All your doing is digging yourself a deeper hole and making yourself look silly and uniformed.
 
green said:
Lol. Again, you're way off on this topic. Way off.

My wife has had three kids. She exercises 1 hr a day, and counts every calorie she eats. She looks fantastic. Amazing. Better than she looked when we got married. Better than most 18 year olds. Guess what? After three kids, some parts of her body have CHANGED. Not gotten fatter, or older, or saggier, but COMPLETELY different than when she was younger. No fault of her own.

She's done the work. Those changes have nothing to do with what she eats, or how she exercises, or how lazy you think she is. Those changes came about because she decided to have children. That's it. Her problems are 100% because she wanted kids.

Now, like I said earlier, men and women put on makeup, nice clothes, cologne, get braces (and how is this different than a tuck or lift? Both are invasive procedures that change the way you look), do their hair, shower to look better for everyone else and to feel good about themselves. How is a tuck or a lift any different?

I'll tell you how: because you've decided you know everything about a topic you know nothing about. You have no real world experience (which, by the way, is my biggest grief with politicians. Most politicians went into politics because they couldn't hack it in the private sector, yet they want to tell me how the private sector should run, when they either failed at it, or have no experience with it).

All your doing is digging yourself a deeper hole and making yourself look silly and uniformed.
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lol.
 
green said:
Lol. Again, you're way off on this topic. Way off.

My wife has had three kids. She exercises 1 hr a day, and counts every calorie she eats. She looks fantastic. Amazing. Better than she looked when we got married. Better than most 18 year olds. Guess what? After three kids, some parts of her body have CHANGED. Not gotten fatter, or older, or saggier, but COMPLETELY different than when she was younger. No fault of her own.

She's done the work. Those changes have nothing to do with what she eats, or how she exercises, or how lazy you think she is. Those changes came about because she decided to have children. That's it. Her problems are 100% because she wanted kids.

Now, like I said earlier, men and women put on makeup, nice clothes, cologne, get braces (and how is this different than a tuck or lift? Both are invasive procedures that change the way you look), do their hair, shower to look better for everyone else and to feel good about themselves. How is a tuck or a lift any different?

I'll tell you how: because you've decided you know everything about a topic you know nothing about. You have no real world experience (which, by the way, is my biggest grief with politicians. Most politicians went into politics because they couldn't hack it in the private sector, yet they want to tell me how the private sector should run, when they either failed at it, or have no experience with it).

All your doing is digging yourself a deeper hole and making yourself look silly and uniformed.
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How do you know what his experiences are? Or even what he learned from those experiences?
 
If anyone has seen what kind of women/men are online dating in Utah then it's mind boggling to know people spend an average of 7 seconds looking at them.


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Stoked said:
How do you know what his experiences are? Or even what he learned from those experiences?
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My response was to this post of his:


Cyrone Torbin said:
Shows you are too lazy to actually work it off naturally and take care of your body.
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My wife's issues have nothing to do with taking care of her body or working it off. He is assuming the only reason people want tucks and lifts is because they are fat and lazy. He doesn't know what he is talking about.
 
green said:
My response was to this post of his:





My wife's issues have nothing to do with taking care of her body or working it off. He is assuming the only reason people want tucks and lifts is because they are fat and lazy. He doesn't know what he is talking about.
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Sorry you disagree man. Just my opinion that it is something unnecessary and superficial.
 
green said:
My response was to this post of his:





My wife's issues have nothing to do with taking care of her body or working it off. He is assuming the only reason people want tucks and lifts is because they are fat and lazy. He doesn't know what he is talking about.
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It's a large reason. Cool, your wife doesn't fit in that category. Whoopty-doo. It's something most people do as a shortcut to actual work, or do it when they realize they can't be what they once were. I'm just in favor of letting father time take his course and doing things as naturally as possible.
 
green said:
Lol. Again, you're way off on this topic. Way off.

My wife has had three kids. She exercises 1 hr a day, and counts every calorie she eats. She looks fantastic. Amazing. Better than she looked when we got married. Better than most 18 year olds. Guess what? After three kids, some parts of her body have CHANGED. Not gotten fatter, or older, or saggier, but COMPLETELY different than when she was younger. No fault of her own.

She's done the work. Those changes have nothing to do with what she eats, or how she exercises, or how lazy you think she is. Those changes came about because she decided to have children. That's it. Her problems are 100% because she wanted kids.

Now, like I said earlier, men and women put on makeup, nice clothes, cologne, get braces (and how is this different than a tuck or lift? Both are invasive procedures that change the way you look), do their hair, shower to look better for everyone else and to feel good about themselves. How is a tuck or a lift any different?

I'll tell you how: because you've decided you know everything about a topic you know nothing about. You have no real world experience (which, by the way, is my biggest grief with politicians. Most politicians went into politics because they couldn't hack it in the private sector, yet they want to tell me how the private sector should run, when they either failed at it, or have no experience with it).

All your doing is digging yourself a deeper hole and making yourself look silly and uniformed.
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We get older and no matter what we can't look like we did when we were 19. I don't blame people for trying and I don't look down on people for getting surgery if that's what they want to do, but wouldn't it be more healthy to appreciate some of the changes and be proud of not looking like a nubile?

Thing is, I've seen a lot of really bad plastic surgery. This botox crap women do to their lips? Wow, straight up horror show. Never has it looked good to me. A tummy tuck probably makes the most sense because you can get loose skin that will not go away. It's not a matter of working for it, it won't go away.
 
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