We get older and no matter what we can't look like we did when we were 19. I don't blame people for trying and I don't look down on people for getting surgery if that's what they want to do, but wouldn't it be more healthy to appreciate some of the changes and be proud of not looking like a nubile?
Thing is, I've seen a lot of really bad plastic surgery. This botox crap women do to their lips? Wow, straight up horror show. Never has it looked good to me. A tummy tuck probably makes the most sense because you can get loose skin that will not go away. It's not a matter of working for it, it won't go away.
There are probably just as many bad tummy tucks out there. The difference is you can cover it up with a shirt.
Comedian Bill Burr has a pretty funny bit on this. Would post, but profanity laced.