do you see me as a bigot.
incase you do not know my view. simple: Mariage is for procreaiton. same sex mariages therefore are not allowed because no matter what they do procreation does not happen.
Would you forbid someone from marrying an 80-year-old woman? Your silence on this is telling, because I'm fairly sure you would allow for this, even though there is no chance of procreation. That indicates you are deceiving someone, probably yourself.