Because they know their kids the best, and can tailor the discussion appropriately. And can pick the appropriate time for the discussion. And don't have artificial time constraints. And know the kids' backgrounds so can draw appropriate analogies and examples. And so forth.
Why would you NOT think that? Do you have any kids yourself? I'm guessing not.
Parents know best?
Lol.
I guess I shouldn't be too hard on you. You're dealing with higher education kids at a private school. 99 percent of your students choose to be there.
In k-12 education? Not the case.
Just the other day I got an email from a parent claiming their student to be a "great" student and a "brilliant" boy. Yep. Parents know best. Their brilliant boy is rocking a 1.5 gpa, hasn't risen above 2.0 this entire year, is filled with N and U cit grades, and has been best friends with the school's drug dealer for most of the year. Brilliant student, obviously! Because parents clearly know best.
I think one of the best examples of the "parents know best crowd" are in red regressive states where the responsibility of sex education is diverted from professionals and educators and placed on the backs of parents who know best. In those states, teen pregnancy, abortion, and std rates exceed those of states with comprehensive sex education. It's almost like professional educators in an educational setting can like educate better than Joe Sixpack relaxing after a tough 10 hr work day. The truth is, students tend to listen more in educational settings. They don't have to worry about being judged by their parents. Educators and counselors have been trained. Parents? Many don't know their kids beyond the fact that at some point they opened their legs and 9 months later they popped out.
The "parents know best" crowd mentality thrives in Mormon families, from what I gather. I haven't seen much difference in quality teaching, Mormon or gentile. Some Mormon families have no idea about their kids. Others do a good job. Gentile families? Same thing. The one factor I've seen that does correlate to "knowing your child best" is that nuclear families with steady incomes tend to value education more and have more time to actually know their children.
Parents have a key role in setting examples and teaching values. But there's no substitute for educators who have like... Gone to college. And have received training. Crazy idea, I know.
Hundreds have signed a petition in support of this teacher. The school board isn't going to punish him. And if showing Glory and talking about the N word is going to get educators in trouble then Utah's teacher shortage just became far worse. I applaud educators for teaching the uncomfortable. That's where real learning occurs. It's not reinforcing previously held beliefs. It's with teaching the inconvenient, shedding light upon the shadows, and correcting defining words that these kids misuse every single day.