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More death threats -- Woman take video of her walk through New York

A bunch of men handing over an opinion and blaming women for feeling uncomfortable and threatened makes my blood boil. Put yourself in others shoes for one ****ing second and realize **** you say, no matter your intention, matters and can be hurtful and threatening, even if you don't mean it that way.

WOW. You are truly a jackass. I challenge your claim that men are trivializing this issue. GO BACK AND READ EVERY ****ING POST, STUPID ****.
 
I hate to accuse anyone here of this but I feel many of the men here are jealous they don't have the courage to approach a girl and make small talk. Is approaching a woman at work or school any better? Isn't it awkward because if they say no you guys work together or are classmates? Granted some people in this video didn't make appropriate small talk but I will continue to approach women, say hello, and smile. All you need is charisma and not look like a troll. Is the only option to go to online dating websites? Many of you would probably say "just make friends first then ask them." But what if you work at a job that limits your prospects. My dad met my mom by a random encounter on the street and I am glad he did. I took after his charisma :). This video makes it seem you shouldn't talk with women on the streets at all. I do agree you shouldn't follow them for 5 minutes.
 
I'm actually really glad you brought this up, and it's a legitimate point. Nice to see you making somewhat of an effort to discuss this intelligently, as opposed to the crap posts that make up the majority of your input in this thread.
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I don't have any daughters, but I do have two sisters, and if I was walking behind her during this video, I would have had something to say to a couple of guys that didn't let it go when they were ignored. Having said that, I would say nothing to those who greeted her and let it go at that. Even though she may have been uncomfortable with those comments, that is a part of life that will NEVER change, but a woman can minimize this, if she really wants to.
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That doesn't mean I believe it's her responsibility to make up for other peoples shortcomings, or that we shouldn't try to change things for the better, but how about we accept our CURRENT reality for what it is, instead of pretending that all human beings are capable of understanding the greater good. Some people are BAD, and some GOOD people often act shamefully, and that is a situation that will remain constant, no matter how much we wish it wasn't true.
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In other words, women are ALWAYS going to be uncomfortable with unwanted advances, and it's absolutely silly to think that the awkwardness involved with trying to meet members of the opposite sex, is somehow going to be perfected to the point that nobody ever creeps anybody else out. That will always be true, at least on this planet.
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Greeting a stranger in such a way may be tacky(in this case, it is), but it is FAR from a behavior that should be addressed by law, which is what I take when people use terms such as harassment and victim. The woman was harassed a few times, but that's not the majority of the video. I take exception to "hey baby" being called harassment. That is a disservice and an insult to people who have truly had to deal with sexual harassment in their lives.
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Now, I want to address OB's question of responsibility. There have been a couple of really dumbass posts in this thread, but this issue isn't about responsibility. There are always going to be ****ty people in this world, who do what they want to do, regardless of the way society views them. It's ****ty behavior, but it's a part of reality that isn't changing any time soon.
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I have no problem with trying to change this attitude, but if I had a daughter, I would explain this to her (AND FOR GOD'S SAKE, stop the selective reading), : Even if she walked down the street naked, there is NEVER any excuse for a man to rape a woman. However, if you walk around naked, it might increase your odds of getting raped. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH RESPONSIBLITY, but instead involves common sense in avoiding things you don't want to happen to you.

Good for you. Coward. Keep sitting on your dick while your sister gets **** on by random dudes. Good on ya.

Just because that's the way it goes is not an excuse to let it ride.

I'm not surprised you're not married. You have zero balls.


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I want to post this thought separately.

That fact is that confident assertive bold men who are persistent get more tail than the rest of us. No two ways about it. There is absolutely a reward for being willing to approach women and to be persistent. Take away the reward and maybe the behavior will start to change...of course we'll need to breed out that tendency that had led to greater sexual success for the last few million years.

And to think, I almost negged you for your initial response to my comments.
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BY FAR, the greatest response in this thread.
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I'm not happy with girls being treated in this way, but yes, I think they have a choice in the matter, as far as minimizing the harassment. PROVE ME WRONG!!!
 
I hate to accuse anyone here of this but I feel many of the men here are jealous they don't have the courage to approach a girl and make small talk. Is approaching a woman at work or school any better? Isn't it awkward because if they say no you guys work together or are classmates? Granted some people in this video didn't make appropriate small talk but I will continue to approach women, say hello, and smile. All you need is charisma and not look like a troll. Is the only option to go to online dating websites? Many of you would probably say "just make friends first then ask them." But what if you work at a job that limits your prospects. My dad met my mom by a random encounter on the street and I am glad he did. I took after his charisma :). This video makes it seem you shouldn't talk with women on the streets at all. I do agree you shouldn't follow them for 5 minutes.

You're confused. There's a difference between small talk in a social setting, where women are lookin fo love, and walking down the street running errands, working, or going to get laid. Woman are not waiting for you to swing your dick at them and being bombarded, it sucks and can be frightening. Think about this when you catcall in public, this is what we're talking about. You make women feel threatened and degraded .not always, but a lot of the time. It's your responsibility to act like a human and respect people. Go Mack on chicks whenever it's not a public embarrassment to them. That's not much to ask.


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And to think, I almost negged you for your initial response to my comments.
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BY FAR, the greatest response in this thread.
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I'm not happy with girls being treated in this way, but yes, I think they have a choice in the matter, as far as minimizing the harassment. PROVE ME WRONG!!!

You blame victims. Your a piece of human ****. PROVE ME WRONG!!!


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Good for you. Coward. Keep sitting on your dick while your sister gets **** on by random dudes. Good on ya.

LOL. Both of my sisters are intelligent enough to understand that if they walk down a street in a big city, some D-bags might hit on them. I asked them both if I should be offended by this, and they both laughed their asses off. I was informed that women enjoy being pursued, and that unwanted attention is just something that most women accept as a reality, like it or not.

Seems kind of obvious, for anyone who has sisters in their family. Not my fault that you are an only, lonely child. Sucks to be you, whah.):
 
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You're confused. There's a difference between small talk in a social setting, where women are lookin fo love, and walking down the street running errands, working, or going to get laid. Woman are not waiting for you to swing your dick at them and being bombarded sucks and can be frightening. Think about this when you catcall I. Public, this is what we're talking about. You make women feel threatened and degraded .not always, but a lot of the time. It's your responsibility to act like a human and respect people. Go Mack on chicks whenever it's not a public embarrassment to them. That's not much to ask.


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If being social with girls is harassment than I guess I am a serial harasser because I say hello, smile, and make eye contact with girls in the street. If they look away or move on so do I. That is what most people in the video did. 100+ cases of harassment I see not.
 
If being social with girls is harassment than I guess I am a serial harasser because I say hello, smile, and make eye contact with girls in the street. If they look away or move on so do I. That is what most people in the video did. 100+ cases of harassment I see not.

You ****ing monster.
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Oh, the humanity!!!
 
If being social with girls is harassment than I guess I am a serial harasser because I say hello, smile, and make eye contact with girls in the street. If they look away or move on so do I. That is what most people in the video did. 100+ cases of harassment I see not.

That's not what we're talking about and that's not what these guys were doing.


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You blame victims.

And you, you pathetic piece of ****, use the term victim in a completely pathetic attempt to place blame on those men who use the term "hey baby". Go **** yourself, seriously. As much as I used to like you, you are now in the category of newsbreaker. Jackass who is incapable of discussing anything without being a huge vagina. Own it.
 
Culturally ingrained bigotry tbh. How dare you think those women aren't out for a fun girls night out instead of male harassment?

While I might sound facetious, this is possibly the biggest arena of unwanted and aggressive male on female harassment in America. Please don't promote it.

Freak, you liked this post. Frank basically **** on everything you're saying. Are you confused?


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And you, you pathetic piece of ****, use the term victim in a completely pathetic attempt to place blame on those men who use the term "hey baby". Go **** yourself, seriously. As much as I used to like you, you are now in the category of newsbreaker. Jackass who is incapable of discussing anything without being a huge vagina. Own it.

Ok. I don't care about you and what you think. You look awesome right now. Keep it up.


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That's not what we're talking about and that's not what these guys were doing.


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Oh yes, please explain how you understand all this better than rest of us. You are a complete ****ing idiot, and you know it. Live with your shortcomings, and stop trying to blame the rest of us for the way that society views little vaginas like you.
 
Oh yes, please explain how you understand all this better than rest of us. You are a complete ****ing idiot, and you know it. Live with your shortcomings, and stop trying to blame the rest of us for the way that society views little vaginas like you.

Keep digging.


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