This argument has merit as a fanatical counterweight to right wing fanaticism, IMO. Counterweight arguments are counterproductive, as Gameface's insulted response to your accusation proves.
You say that like hurting some feelings is a bad thing. I've been reading a lot of white people that say they didn't really understand how awful their position was until they were confronted directly with anger and hurt. it's far too easy to cocoon yourself in an opinion.
Point scored, but this doesn't have any bearing on the discussion.
Perhaps not the discussion you'd like to have.
Do you have anything to show that this is a significant issue today? I'm not saying it's not, but in our corporatized world it's harmful for institutions to discriminate for any reason.
Only if the majority of institutions do not discriminate. Since the vast majority do discriminate (I mean in the sense of the actions of individuals, and not as corporate policy), and those that do not often get treated as second-class by the vast majority, the repercussions are minimal.
As for studies, I've linked a few in JazzFanz before, and there are many, many more out there. If you don't know, you haven't looked.
Did Ghandi make people do things his way.
Yes. The whole point was to expose the underlying violence, force people to confront themselves, and thereby be forced to change.
Did Mother Theresa force people think she was great and follow the way she lives? Did Christ force people to follow him?
Both were highly outspoken advocates for their positions, and not shy about hurting people's feelings when needed.
Making a law, or attempting to force people to act a certain way will not solve the problem.
Often, it can be a step on the way to solving a problem. In particular, getting people to acknowledge their bias can lead to them acting with less bias.
Most or all people take longer to change a given action when that action is criticized. If that person is shown a better way, and encouraged, positive change seems to happen faster and in a more complete manner.
I agree, both negative and positive reinforcement are useful. Neither of those involves keeping quiet.
All I can say is thank the dear Lord I don't view the world the way you do.
As a white man, you'll never need to.
Is there anything I can say to defend myself and my own virtues when someone is intent on discrediting me for having white privilege (even though/especially because racial or gender privilege is real)?
It's sloppy, and I generally don't find it productive.
You don't need to defend yourself, because it's a statement of objective truth, not moral imperfection. All you are being asked to do is recognize, accept it, and in the future, keep it in mind when you interact with others.
Ahh white liberal guilt...it's like a little taste of growing up back in the Bay Area.
Because white people couldn't possibly genuinely believe any of this, there just being emotionally manipulated? Dog-whistle.