That would be a nice sentiment except for the reality that those who are the biggest economic drains on the economy live disproportionately in Red states and vote Republican.
So really, you, or others, don't have a problem with Romney saying that 47% of the population "who are dependent upon government, who believe that they are victims, who believe the government has a responsibility to care for them, who believe that they are entitled to health care, to food, to housing?" Not only is this an incredibly demeaning claim, essentially saying that 47% of a nation of over 300 million are deadbeat losers (who for this reason won't vote for him), but it's also factually inaccurate. Regardless of anything Obama has said or done in the past (which is irrelevant--we can talk about those separately), you really have no problem with this claim and what it implies? Really?
Speaking only for me, YES, I do think that people in the richest country in the history of the world ARE entitled to basic needs of life, including food (who would really argue that), shelter (I mean, who really thinks that it's ok for people to be homeless), healthcare (yes, I really do think this, so does every other developed country in the world--the US is the outlier in this case, not the norm). It's a wonder Romney didn't add education to this list. Damned deadbeat entitlement losers, what with all the government subsidized education.