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The costs of gay marriage

(about selfishness in general)
IMO this country/world has changed quite a bit towards being much more selfish, and I sincerely believe selfishness is at the heart of all/most of our worlds people related problems. I have not looked into all world problems/issues to see if selfishness is at the heart of it but I wonder if it is at the heart of all of them.

While I agree that selfishness (whether individual or group) has contributed to suffering, I disagree that the general levels of selfishness have increased. It seems to me that you are experiencing the nostalgia effect.
 
A gay man has the equal right to marry a woman just like a straight man does. So you cannot say that gays don't have equal rights.

A white person would have the right to marry a white person, and a non-white person to marry a non-white person, so laws forbidding white people from marrying non-white people are not discrimination?
 
When private people/entities are being forced into business with people/entities they disagree with is it really? Go look up the people that have been sued for refusing their personal, private services to a gay couple.

People have been sued for refusing commercial, public services to gay couples, not personal, private services.
 
Black men will never be priests, right?

I was wondering how long it would be before someone goes there. If you think the Mormon Church will embrace gay marriage and act like they always did then it shows your lack of understanding of the LDS church on a basic, fundamental level.
 
Yes, and it makes you feel better to try to vilify my opinion by comparing it to slave owners and the KKK.

I agree that the comparison is bad. There is a really good comparison between your views and the views of people who opposed interracial marriages. You use the same arguments based on similar claims and cast in the same way. The comparison to slave-owners and the KKK is more tenuous.
 
So you think it is ok for a private photographer to decline to shoot a lesbian wedding based on their religious beliefs, be sued and be forced to shoot the wedding anyway?

I do not.

I'm confused. Why would two lesbians insist on hiring a photographer who, due to moral standards, would likely be doing inferior work? Why would the police handcuff someone and drag them to a wedding to do a shoot?

Now, if by "decline", you mean 'renege on an already-signed contract', and if by "forced", you mean 'given a choice between doing the work and paying a hefty for reneging on a contract', then yes, I think it would be OK if a photographer tried to be break a contract and was given the choice between completing it and paying a hefty penalty. You think that's bad?
 
(Yes there are some exceptions but where do we draw the line?)

Currently, the line is drawn at advertising yourself to the general public as serving the general public, versus advertising yourself privately as serving privately. What line do you suggest?
 
I'm confused. Why would two lesbians insist on hiring a photographer who, due to moral standards, would likely be doing inferior work? Why would the police handcuff someone and drag them to a wedding to do a shoot?

Now, if by "decline", you mean 'renege on an already-signed contract', and if by "forced", you mean 'given a choice between doing the work and paying a hefty for reneging on a contract', then yes, I think it would be OK if a photographer tried to be break a contract and was given the choice between completing it and paying a hefty penalty. You think that's bad?

I have seen nothing indicating they had a contract. Just that the photog refused to shoot the pictures. Not even the Huffington Post and CNN articles I have seen mention anything about a contract.

So are you just spinning, as usual, or do you bring up a contract based off soemthing you have read?
 
I'm confused. Why would two lesbians insist on hiring a photographer who, due to moral standards, would likely be doing inferior work? Why would the police handcuff someone and drag them to a wedding to do a shoot?

Now, if by "decline", you mean 'renege on an already-signed contract', and if by "forced", you mean 'given a choice between doing the work and paying a hefty for reneging on a contract', then yes, I think it would be OK if a photographer tried to be break a contract and was given the choice between completing it and paying a hefty penalty. You think that's bad?

It sounds like they sued out of principle. They knew the photographer violated the law and knew it would be an easy way to make headlines.
 
Gays absolutely have the right to marry. They can marry someone of the opposite sex, just like anyone else. And some do. That's why this is absolutely NOT a discrimination issue, to me.

A white person would have the right to marry a white person, and a non-white person to marry a non-white person, so laws forbidding white people from marrying non-white people are not discrimination?
 
It sounds like they sued out of principle. They knew the photographer violated the law and knew it would be an easy way to make headlines.

That is exactly what I have seen in the articles I have read.
 
A white person would have the right to marry a white person, and a non-white person to marry a non-white person, so laws forbidding white people from marrying non-white people are not discrimination?

Do you ever get friction burns?
 
Natural law, tradition, religion, intellectual curiosity, and free inquiry no longer play a role in deliberations. Same-sex marriage legislation is defended solely on grounds of moral relativism and emotions.

Pure sophistry is pitted against reason. Reason is losing.

The idea that "Natural law, tradition, religion" come down on the side of reason, or are compatible with "intellectual curiosity, and free inquiry" is side-splittingly funny.
 
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