oh, I have so much to say I'm not sure I even want to begin...
but I'll start with a little anecdote from about 20 years ago - - my son and an african-american friend of his were planning their Halloween costumes, maybe they were in 2nd grade. His brown friend was thinking of going as a ghost and they got into a discussion of whether a brown person would be a brown ghost, and therefore should wear a brown sheet (never mind the conundrum of a little brown boy in a white sheet, they had no clue about any of that) - they kept trying to figure it out, my white son thinking a brown sheet was best, the brown friend thinking a white sheet was best. Finally my older son (4th grade or so) told them that since everyone's skeleton is white, the ghost would probably be white no matter the color of the skin of the living person. They decided that made sense, so a white sheet it was.
(We live in a very diverse suburb - it has been for quite a while - but it definitely seems to have gotten far more polarized over the past few years - I'm not sure how that discussion would play out now!)
Little off topic, and I’m not sure how well I can articulate my thoughts into words on this subject, but I enjoyed reading this story of yours, haha, gotta love kids, and how their little minds work. Made me think of my childhood, then how screwed up I became as an adult, if kids ruled the world, just think how different this discussion would be.
We live in a pretty effed up world with an effed up way of thinking. Even in change and improvement the way we treat our fellow man sometimes I feel it is a disguise. Racism isn’t what it used to be, it’s evolved over time, or adapted. Before it was more open and bold, now it more hides in the shadows and more passive aggressive and concealing to a point where good people display their own form of racism without realizing it, for example the girls costume from Instagram, I can’t speak for her, it may have been innocent, or not.
Back to my original point, as adults, we ignore the problem, try to justify it and walk away, where as kids lash out then resolve their differences over time, they are more forgiving, where we hold in our pride and refuse to take responsibility for example a person blaming the one who feels insulted for keeping racism alive by being a victim instead of facing facts that you hurt someone as if they are in the wrong and not you.
Or.... and I’m sorry for bringing this up, but when people say Kaepernick is not showing respect for the men and women of the military even though he plainly stated it had nothing to do with the military he even changed from sitting to kneeling to show respect for the military and how we have distorted the message of his none aggressive protest.
This isn’t something that is a problem with a small group or even a large group, we are all guilty of hate, I know I am. I know I can treat others here with more respect than I do. until all of us puts on our child’s self on and put away our pride, this will never go away.
To sum this all up or try to anyways. The kids in @ moevillini story all came to the conclusion that since their bones were white then everyone is white as a ghost.
If what the girl in the Instagram pic hurt someone’s feelings, she was in the wrong and needs to own up, and take responsibility, that’s how we change and affect real change.
OMG this is cheesy as hell but this is what I believe.
Getting off my soap box now.
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