In all the discussions of late on transgender issues, I've been thinking often about a poster here whose original Jazzfanz name I cannot remember (real life name was John) who then became KatieMCR. Does anyone know if she still posts here or anything about her?
I had several private chats with her throughout the experience of coming to terms with her gender identity. As I knew nothing about it, I did a lot of research at the time to try to understand something outside my experience. I owe her a debt of gratitude for expanding my knowledge and understanding and compassion, and I hope her life has been wonderful and lived on her own terms.
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Not sure if it was her original name, but before she was KatieMCR, I'm pretty sure she used a name that started with Jack.
She seemed to follow the local SLC music scene pretty closely and would often post about one or two of her favorite singers/bands.
I'm old and senile so I can't recall the specifics but the MCR part of her name was for one of her favorite bands.
My Chemical Response, maybe???
She was JohnDeereJerry if I remember right.
I regret how I treated her.
Not sure if it was her original name, but before she was KatieMCR, I'm pretty sure she used a name that started with Jack.
She seemed to follow the local SLC music scene pretty closely and would often post about one or two of her favorite singers/bands.
I'm old and senile so I can't recall the specifics but the MCR part of her name was for one of her favorite bands.
My Chemical Response, maybe???
She was JohnDeereJerry if I remember right.
I regret how I treated her.
Were you that bad? Was I? Honestly, I felt a little bad and then franklin's detailed post about how she'd act rang true with me and I don't feel so bad.
It doesn't matter if Caitlyn Jenner is a POS.
She was JohnDeereJerry if I remember right.
I regret how I treated her.
It was pretty darn bad-- but he had the decency and integrity to apologize about it while she was still here. I remember he made an entire thread as an apology. So you should be proud of that, and it speaks to you that you're able to admit your past transgressions.
With that said (and i'm not saying this applies to you) but every time we make a potshot at Caitlyn Jenner for her gender, and we refer to her as he/she, we are continuing the discriminatory discourse that paralyzes the rights of transgender ppl. Out of respect to KatieMCR, we should refer to people using the pronouns that they themselves request. It doesn't matter if Caitlyn Jenner is a POS.
Hey, if Caitlyn Jenner can't figure out if she's a he or she, then how the hell can I?
Given the direction of the thread, this was sort of messed up.
Why do you say this?
Dala set it up. It was a diss on Jenner thinking of switching back. Nothing to do with Katie.
Honest question: Have people always been struggling to come to terms with their gender identity or is this a new phenomenon?Making light of someone struggling to come to terms with what their gender identity is has very much pertinence with Katie. This probably wasn't the thread to make this joke, IMO.
Honest question: Have people always been struggling to come to terms with their gender identity or is this a new phenomenon?
Honest question: Have people always been struggling to come to terms with their gender identity or is this a new phenomenon?
It was pretty darn bad-- but he had the decency and integrity to apologize about it while she was still here. I remember he made an entire thread as an apology. So you should be proud of that, and it speaks to you that you're able to admit your past transgressions.
With that said (and i'm not saying this applies to you) but every time we make a potshot at Caitlyn Jenner for her gender, and we refer to her as he/she, we are continuing the discriminatory discourse that paralyzes the rights of transgender ppl. Out of respect to KatieMCR, we should refer to people using the pronouns that they themselves request. It doesn't matter if Caitlyn Jenner is a POS.