First paragraph is more of the same from you. It ocntributes to the problem therefore it is part of the horse. It is a cause and if you choose to deny that then that is fine. But I deny your title of victim blamer. It is rubish.
The only problem it contributes to is the problem people have with seeing the results of their actions.
Suddenly I have someone telling me I have to refer to them by a seperate title due to their skin tone? Rubish.
You had a black person complain when you called them an American? In what context, outside of this type of discussion?