The Trump campaign has historic footage of Jesse Jackson honoring him for his employment of lots of good black craftsmen and construction workers, with Trump profusely thanking them for their good work. There are no women in Trumps past that are out there saying he was anything but a gentleman, and there's lots of footage of him praising all kinds of fine contributions women have made in his business organizations and even construction crews. He profusely honors everyone in his rhetoric of success. As for being an idiot, it's pretty clear he's as crazy as fox, but he comes out the winner regularly.
you lookin' at rhetoric on the campaign trail? He speaks to the people, he says stuff to wow them, in an edgy sort of way..... but he has fun with it and moves on. No sign he's deeply committed to any view that is offensive to anyone, and face to face with anyone he is talking with them, not lecturing them on how they should be. He just doesn't hate anyone, and he just doesn't have time to dig deep. He will apologize and reverse himself the moment he sees it go wrong.
No reason to expect campaign rhetoric to be policy in a Trump administration.