The Official "Ask A Woman" Thread

[Stoked]

So, you think he mentioned wives gaining weight, next referred to husbands having sex outside the marriage, connected the two with the word "then", and yet did not mean that the former was in any way responsible for the latter? That explains so much about you.

It is pathetic that you have to lay blame and play the sexism and racism cards all the time. It says loads about you. I would hate to live in the sad world that you do. I am glad that I see the word differently than you. That I do not try to label and seperate everyone and disect every thing anyone says in some misguided attempt to find fault. No thank you.

I see it as him relating a rseries of events that takes place. He did not give the specifics of these cases that he claims to have seen so no I am not going to sit here and asign blame. Perhaps you should not be so quick to place blame in cases that you know nothing about.

 

[Stoked]

To be sure Duck. Adding wieght has more to do with personal caring than sex of the weight gainer.

 

[Stifle Tower]

Is there a question somewhere in this weighty discussion of the last 1+ page?
This is "Ask a Woman" thread. I want to hear from jazz_fanatic, not you Cheetos-loving, beer-chugging, out-of-shape has-beens.

 

[jazz_fanatic]

What color looks sexiest/handsome on a guy?

Black or white.

This is a problem though, women get married then they feel like they don't have to "try" as hard. Then they get fat. Then their husband cheats on them. Then the girl is just fat and single with 2 kids. A far too common story. Luckily my wife is not of these, but my I can't say the same for a lot of my friends.

Let's change things up a bit. Let's say your "luck" changes and your wife stops trying, but still loves uou just the same. She gains quite a bit of weight within he span of 3 years. What's your next move? Just curios.

Does having the attention of many men on a sports internet message board satisfy your innate womanly need for attention?

Close, but no dice.

P.s. I'm not wen gonna attempt to correct my spelling/grammar. Posting on a forum with a smartphone is tough.

 

[Dr. Jones]

Why do women lie about their height? That's never made sense to me. And I'm not talking about Internet women. I'm talking about....you're 6'2" or 6'3"....some girl is standing next to you talking....height comes up for whatever reason and she's clearly about a foot shorter than you, but in her mind she's (5'8"). They are always 5'8".

I think it's more that they just generally suck at math.. and tape measures.. and stuff.

 

[Dr. Jones]

Is there a question somewhere in this weighty discussion of the last 1+ page?
This is "Ask a Woman" thread. I want to hear from jazz_fanatic, not you Cheetos-loving, beer-chugging, out-of-shape has-beens.

**** you! I don't eat Cheetos.

 

[One Brow]

It is pathetic that you have to lay blame and play the sexism and racism cards all the time. It says loads about you.

Yawn. Poor distraction attempt.

I see it as him relating a rseries of events that takes place.

If there's no causal connection, it's not a series of events, it's just coincidences. It's like you don't even believe your own argument (which, based on your posting history, you really don't), and your choice of words is betraying you.

 

[One Brow]

Let's change things up a bit. Let's say your "luck" changes and your wife stops trying, but still loves uou just the same. She gains quite a bit of weight within he span of 3 years. What's your next move? Just curios.

You misunderstood Beantown, according to Stoked.

 

[Stoked]

Yawn. Poor distraction attempt.



If there's no causal connection, it's not a series of events, it's just coincidences. It's like you don't even believe your own argument (which, based on your posting history, you really don't), and your choice of words is betraying you.

No, you just want to believe they are.

 

[Stoked]

You misunderstood Beantown, according to Stoked.

No, unlike you she is trying to get details before passing judgement.

 

[MVP]

Let's change things up a bit. Let's say your "luck" changes and your wife stops trying, but still loves you just the same. She gains quite a bit of weight within he span of 3 years. What's your next move? Just curios.

I would talk to her first. Support her in any way possible to help to lose it - be it a diet or exercise ( it is not rocket science and it is quite easy in fact, all it takes is effort). But if she gives up and does not even try then I would have hard time having sex with her. Fat women are just not attractive to me, sorry. It probably would eventually lead to divorce.

 

[Beantown]

Let's change things up a bit. Let's say your "luck" changes and your wife stops trying, but still loves uou just the same. She gains quite a bit of weight within he span of 3 years. What's your next move? Just curios.

I mentioned "not trying" which leads to gaining weight. My wife has had two kids, her body doesn't look the same as when we were married. But she exercises and is always trying to look good for me. I never come home and she is still in her pajamas or has she stopped wearing makeup or jewelery..etc. She still "tries" for me. Keeping a marriage happy is doing all the stuff you do when you are in the dating scene and courting your partner.

Like with me I still try to impress her by dressing nice, working hard, exercising, always trying to make her laugh, opening her door for her etc. I still do my best to continue courting her.


I know several friends wives have stopped trying. They don't get ready, gain weight by not exercising. don't wear make up...etc. Some of them have cheated on their wives but it was not just purely sexual. When women don't feel the need to "impress" their man is a kick in the ego. And vice versa Im sure. If a woman isn't getting attention from her husband she makes look elsewhere.

So if my wife stopped trying and let herself go I totally agree that would be really hard. I'm not justifying the cheating I'm just saying both people in the relationship need to make the others feel worthy and wanted.

 

[Saint Cy of JFC]

Why do women lie about their height? That's never made sense to me. And I'm not talking about Internet women. I'm talking about....you're 6'2" or 6'3"....some girl is standing next to you talking....height comes up for whatever reason and she's clearly about a foot shorter than you, but in her mind she's (5'8"). They are always 5'8".

I think that is just a human thing to do. A lot of guys do it for sure. I'm a bit north of 6'1.5 without shoes on (was professionaly measured for a medical study) and right around 6'3 with shoes. A lot of times when people are talking about height, I will hear a guy say 6'3, and he is clearly a couple of inches shorter than me.

 

[Saint Cy of JFC]

I mentioned "not trying" which leads to gaining weight. My wife has had two kids, her body doesn't look the same as when we were married. But she exercises and is always trying to look good for me. I never come home and she is still in her pajamas or has she stopped wearing makeup or jewelery..etc. She still "tries" for me. Keeping a marriage happy is doing all the stuff you do when you are in the dating scene and courting your partner.

Like with me I still try to impress her by dressing nice, working hard, exercising, always trying to make her laugh, opening her door for her etc. I still do my best to continue courting her.


I know several friends wives have stopped trying. They don't get ready, gain weight by not exercising. don't wear make up...etc. Some of them have cheated on their wives but it was not just purely sexual. When women don't feel the need to "impress" their man is a kick in the ego. And vice versa Im sure. If a woman isn't getting attention from her husband she makes look elsewhere.

So if my wife stopped trying and let herself go I totally agree that would be really hard. I'm not justifying the cheating I'm just saying both people in the relationship need to make the others feel worthy and wanted.

That ain't for you homie

 

[AlaskanAssassin]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbCyElB-gFc

 

[Gameface]

I think that is just a human thing to do. A lot of guys do it for sure. I'm a bit north of 6'1.5 without shoes on (was professionaly measured for a medical study) and right around 6'3 with shoes. A lot of times when people are talking about height, I will hear a guy say 6'3, and he is clearly a couple of inches shorter than me.

They figure out what was wrong with you?

 

[Saint Cy of JFC]

They figure out what was wrong with you?

Extremely high metabolism and awkward morning boners.

 

[One Brow]

No, unlike you she is trying to get details before passing judgement.

Here I thought you were criticizing me for being too harsh on Beantown logic, when you were really saying that, by assuming Beantown would not behave that way towards his wife, I was making too nice an assumption about Beantown. I admit, I never thought you'd criticize me for thinking a fellow poster might be a decent person.

Well, that's a mistake I'll happily make over and over again. I'd rather assume any person I interact with is nice.

 

[Stoked]

Here I thought you were criticizing me for being too harsh on Beantown logic, when you were really saying that, by assuming Beantown would not behave that way towards his wife, I was making too nice an assumption about Beantown. I admit, I never thought you'd criticize me for thinking a fellow poster might be a decent person.

Well, that's a mistake I'll happily make over and over again. I'd rather assume any person I interact with is nice.

Spin buddy spin! WHOOOOOO!!!!! Hahaha good stuff.

 

[One Brow]

Spin buddy spin! WHOOOOOO!!!!! Hahaha good stuff.

I'm not responsible for your inability to read simple English.