Stoked has about 50 post of essentially saying nothing in this thread.
[size/HUGE] fixed [/size];819198 said:There's a solid percentage of dudes around here who are top-shelf douchewads.
[size/HUGE] fixed [/size];819345 said:that whole "music" discussion was hideous/hilarious. I like how it brought Hantlers into the scrum. I'd make a decent wager that he either was or still is a big Creed fan.
It's cute how often you talk about yourself on here.
... ... ... [continuing on for some length] … ... ... that's just like high school drama, and some of us have grown out of that.
The very idea that the culture is biased against white people in general, and that racism against whites is really a pressing social issue, is so ill-informed and beyond offensive that I can't take anyone seriously that makes this an issue of real concern.
lol. you read way to much into it. Have you never heard that phrase before? All I was saying is that I don't directly engage Franklin. I at least try to engage anyone else. That's it.
Naw, I don't like Creed, can't really say I ever have.
Pretty much the only stuff I don't like is heavy metal where they do the guttural screaming and I can't understand a word they're saying.
The main stuff I like is actually country (red dirt) and hip-hop. Andre 3000, Kendrick, Gambino, all good stuff.
With that said, who cares what somebody likes? If we all had the same personal taste, how boring would that be? I could probably make fun of you for whatever it is that you like, but what's the point? I value your uniqueness. I don't particularly enjoy you, and disagree with you often, but I'm not going to mock you for liking something different…that's just like high school drama, and some of us have grown out of that.
Also, I think that Kicky trying to challenge LazyD on music was hilarious. Can't believe that actually happened.
That's a nice story and attempt to laugh it off. So now you are calling my relative a liar or someone with an imagination. figures, I actually expected this from you.
Not that it will matter to you but in his story he was with someone that was also white and in decent shape to get away. I left it out because it doesn't really affect the point, but since you seem to be calling bs on it... there.
I don't care if you believe me or him, but your attempt to marginalize his experience is typical of you. This relative has lived in many multicultural places and is not "afraid of a black man" as you seem to be implying.
Sounds similar to something I posted a little while back, that you called fluff with no real substance.
I was just curious. Anything involving you, or just other people?
It seems to me that the misunderstanding happening between the two factions in this thread come down the historical sense of the concept "racism." Those board members who have that stubborn strain of libertarianism and/or cynicism over the social work of correcting systematic abuse want to shrink that historical sense to zero. The other camp asks for the recognition of a racism that has been shaped by knowable forces, the correction of which takes time, effort, and (obviously) an insistence on a certain historical memory.
I always distrust a libertarianism that demands we speak of things on a dramatically reduced historical scale. It's a meak way of looking at people and processes -- and is bad for spiritual health.
My footprint on this forum is small, and One Brow and SirKickyAss simply reinforce my usual stance of reading but not posting much. I believe that the kind of negative, hateful, and aggressive methods that you choose to defend your own stances on racism do plenty more harm than good to your purported cause.
Stoked, this is part of what I am talking about. You and I both know that sirkickyass posted in a reasonable, neutral, and peaceable fashion, while I posted in an angry, dismissive, and aggressive fashion, but to posters like RobDMB, there is no difference between us. We disagree with his position, therefore we are the ones that are negative and hateful. There is no point of offering honey to those who see every liquid as vinegar.
RobDMB, I don't understand why you would want to defend a position that angers so many, unless you think something important is at stake. Can you even articulate what that important thing is?
I think that's being done in spades in this thread, don't you?
I already made mention of the extreme emic view One Brow seems to be taking in this thread, dismissing any etic viewpoint.
"If you have always believed that everyone should play by the same rules and be judged by the same standards, that would have gotten you labeled a radical 60 years ago, a liberal 30 years ago and a racist today."
Thomas Sowell
Could you expound more on what you think a person of today's personal responsibilities on the matter are aside from not being a racist and correcting racism where it truly exists?
Do you think there is more that should be laid upon the shoulders of people today for what happened in the past? ( just assume the people we are talking about are not racists today, otherwise they would have to correct and deal with what they heap upon their own shoulders.)
Black people should not get a pass to use racially discriminatory speech because they have faced it themselves. Giving black people a pass is in itself discriminatory. The standards for behavior in our society should be universal.
Perhaps but why let them ruin your mood? I just don't see the point in anger over this issue on an internet message board.
[size/HUGE] fixed [/size];819374 said:One Brow's version of liberalism has huge blind spots.
We also cannot turn this into a "boy who called racist" story, because then who will believe us when for once it actually is true?
There are a couple of fundamental differences between what I believe racism is and what One Brow believes racism is.
1- racism can only be from the dominant race to a minority race vs racism can go both ways
2- racism can exist in a person without them knowing it vs racism has to be the intent in some way otherwise it is something else
Did I miss any differences One Brow, or is it just those two?
I agree with you, but would also note that the discrimination is not just historical, but present-day.
Forgive me my good liberal friend, but I definitely did not mean to suggest that discrimination was merely historical. It lives.
In an effort to do well by Stoked, I've reviewed many of his posts in this thread and in others in order to determine the "rule" of his engagements, and the "exception" of his engagements with franklin. I'm new here, and perhaps stoked's subtleties are beyond me, but the only person he seems to approach exceptionally is PKM. These two men seem to have a warm bond, which is nice to see. Exceptional, one might say.
haha.
I try to be approachable to almost everyone. I have no real problems with anyone here. Good to see you posting and I look forward to reading your future posts.
My sense is that the directness of my style and the spiritual core of my messages will have little effect on you. But, still, I'm glad to hear you'll keep an eye out for my posts.
Perhaps this is part of the liberal blindness that [size/HUGE] fixed [/size] referred to, but I really don't care much about laying what happened in the past on anyone. The racism of the past is only relevant to the degree that it affects the racism of today.
If you want to see where racism "truly exists", try an experiment of your own. Take ten resumes, and post two copies of each to various job sites, identical except for their names. Assign a stereotypically white name to one, and a stereotypically black name to another. Make sure to identify their presumptive race on the EEOC forms. Count the number of responses these identical resumes receive from all the HR people all across the US. The only thing this exercise will cost you is time.
Take those results, multiple them by the differing treatment they get once they are employed, while in school, while driving, when applying for a loan, etc., and you will see where racism lives (that is, it is everywhere).
If you really want to see inside yourself, visit Project Implicit and take a few surveys. Don't answer so slowly that you invalidate the results, as another poster did.
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