I have never told you what the cause of your persecution really was. I haven't told you how you need to change to reduce persecution. I haven't tried to blame you for others persecuting you and made you responsible for not impinging on their sensibilities with your religion. I never said you wouldn't have been beaten if you just tried harder. I didn't use pretend that the history of persecution of Mormons was unimportant to today. Instead, when you talked about how you were treated, I listened and accepted that the people in the wrong where the abusers.
I am still holding out hope for you.
And yet you lessened my view point because I am not black. Regardless of how I was treated I am responsible for how I react. If I react in a way that further seperates us then I have some blame as well.