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Hey Kicky....

Sirkickyass said:
That's just the icing on the cake, trust me. I'd judged the move to be a huge mistake after a) the primary reason I moved dumped me the day before the movers showed up and b) I found out I'd lost out on a $30k bonus by quitting my job to make the move prior to February 1st (again, at the extreme urging of the person that I moved for).

The Fes thing would potentially have been a lot of fun, but it's about reason #9 on the depth chart of why the move was a bad idea.
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I'll resist the urge to be a jerk and ask, how the hell did that happen? You're a smart guy and I'm assuming you and your ex had talked all this (the move/your feelings for one another) through but how and why did this happen? What was her "reason"? That ****'s harsh.

To try to look on the bright side, is your new job a good bump in salary and a good opportunity?
 
Man, it seems like everyone is having wominz issues lately. You, OB, GF... who's next?

I'm really sorry you're having such a rough time, Kicky, and wish you better luck with your next mail order bride.
 
franklin said:
Man, it seems like everyone is having wominz issues lately. You, OB, GF... who's next?

I'm really sorry you're having such a rough time, Kicky, and wish you better luck with your next mail order bride.
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Yeah, my wife is getting really big. Ok, might have something to do with the pregnancy though.

Kicky--I am sure there are some nice women where you are now right?
 
Sirkickyass said:
Actually I've been moving, which meant I didn't have the internet in my new apartment until about 30 minutes ago, and had a variety of other life issues come up over the last few weeks. But I'm glad to see the legend of my douchitude lives on even in my absence.
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Oh don't act like you've been completely absent. I've seen you neg-repping me and writing me up on here. And your lady friend made a good decision, I don't even feel bad. Douche.
 
Wes Mantooth said:
I'll resist the urge to be a jerk and ask, how the hell did that happen? You're a smart guy and I'm assuming you and your ex had talked all this (the move/your feelings for one another) through but how and why did this happen? What was her "reason"? That ****'s harsh.
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I don't want to go into the exact reasons involved here. Suffice to say that it was essentially out of nowhere and that all the reasons involved were both longstanding (the entirety of the relationship) and previously entirely unrevealed to me. About a month ago we were looking at houses together with no mention that anything was imminently coming.

To try to look on the bright side, is your new job a good bump in salary and a good opportunity?
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No, in fact I took a substantial prestige downgrade and a $50k/yr decrease in salary. There really isn't a bright side here. I screwed up my career for a woman who turned out to be harboring significant issues for the entire time I had known her and didn't bother to tell me until I had already quit my job and the timing made it so that there was essentially no going back.
 
Kicky, keep your head up, dude. I know this is a hard time, but things will pass and things will work out for you. This crap happened to me in 08 when my fiance broke up with me out of the blue and then I left a job in the Bay making a lot of money to go back to school. I thought my world ended, but in reality it was just a new beginning. Everything has worked out for me and I'm sure the same will work out for you.
 
If your having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.

Look on the bright side though, No House, No marriage and no kids with her. It could have been worse.

Good luck man.
 
Sirkickyass said:
I don't want to go into the exact reasons involved here. Suffice to say that it was essentially out of nowhere and that all the reasons involved were both longstanding (the entirety of the relationship) and previously entirely unrevealed to me. About a month ago we were looking at houses together with no mention that anything was imminently coming.



No, in fact I took a substantial prestige downgrade and a $50k/yr decrease in salary. There really isn't a bright side here. I screwed up my career for a woman who turned out to be harboring significant issues for the entire time I had known her and didn't bother to tell me until I had already quit my job and the timing made it so that there was essentially no going back.
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Damn, that's just cold blooded. Sorry to hear about it all. Let me know when you're interested and I'll give you my sister's number.
 
You know what I'm tink ing Adam. That lady set you up hard. Only one way to get her back. Naughty pics (or gtfo) and text her teh www. If it helps, My wife approves of doing this.
 
Sirkickyass said:
I don't want to go into the exact reasons involved here. Suffice to say that it was essentially out of nowhere and that all the reasons involved were both longstanding (the entirety of the relationship) and previously entirely unrevealed to me. About a month ago we were looking at houses together with no mention that anything was imminently coming.



No, in fact I took a substantial prestige downgrade and a $50k/yr decrease in salary. There really isn't a bright side here. I screwed up my career for a woman who turned out to be harboring significant issues for the entire time I had known her and didn't bother to tell me until I had already quit my job and the timing made it so that there was essentially no going back.
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I know it would be a major pain in the *** but have you called your previous firm in Northern California to see if they'd want you back? Sounds like it would be worth it.
 
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